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| View Poll Results: How would you move on from an abuse bf/gf? | |||
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2 | 14.29% |
| run and hide at someones house |
  
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1 | 7.14% |
| stay till they change |
  
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0 | 0% |
| tell the police |
  
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1 | 7.14% |
| get support from family/friends |
  
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10 | 71.43% |
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Name: Candy
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Trying To Move On -
October 7th 2009, 12:07 PM
ITS OVER!! =)
For Good! My ex bf Ryan in officially out my life! After beating the shit out of me ( no details ) causing me to miscarry and playing with my emotions. My only regret is that it wasn't sooner. People think its soooo easy to get out - it really isnt. Its about respect. I thought he loved me and i loved him blahhhhh but he ovbiously ddnt respect me much to do that crap! My bby would have been one a couple days ago and it hurts to know that my second bby would have been born soon too... i wonder how i can move on- oficially. not much works. New relationship is out of the question, i need time on my OWN!  The futue is murky tooo... how will i have kids. i feels soo guilty i wish i ddnt. its sad to see new babys and lil kids because it makes me think. I hate thinking. Its a bummer, i know. But i'm moving ON and UP!  Candy x |
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October 7th 2009, 12:40 PM
I'm so happpppy that your abusive relationship is over! I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for a long time so I understand how it feels when you get out. I went back to him three times, though, so don't let yourself backslide!!!
~Kitten "I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it."- Audery Hepburn "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them."- Walt Disney Think happy thoughts...and boys will buy you diamonds!"- Hello Kitty   |
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U think it, but i'll ink it...
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Name: Candy
Gender: Female
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Re: Trying To Move On -
October 7th 2009, 01:00 PM
Thank u. but i really hope this is the last time i make a mistake like that. its caused too much crap!
the support i got was great though and im grateful. im sorry for ur situation. and CONGRATS to u too! Thanx agen Candy x |
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Re: Trying To Move On -
October 7th 2009, 01:08 PM
Candy,
My most sincere congratulations on getting out of that mess!!! I'm so proud of you, and happy that you're out of that unhealthy situation. Abuse is something nobody should ever have to deal with, but how fortunate that you got out while you could! As for the babies, I'm so sorry you had to undergo that, but I'm quite sure you'll be able to concieve again, only this time with somebody who loves you, and that's a better environment for children to grow up in anyway peace and love Anna  If you read this signature, know that someone cares about you. You are not alone. <3 Contact me last cut: 4 august 2010 last purge: 13 march 2010 |
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Re: Trying To Move On -
October 7th 2009, 08:05 PM
I'm so glad you got yourself out of that. Things will get so much better for you now! If you need to talk to anyone feel free to pm me
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October 8th 2009, 12:01 AM
Glad you got yourself out of that situation Candy, sounds similar to my friend and i know how hard it can be. Congrats girl. x
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Re: Trying To Move On -
October 8th 2009, 01:22 AM
I am so happy for you hon! It what is the very best for you! I am sorry that you lost two babies, I know how difficult it is and how painful it can be to see other babies and things afterwards. Best of luck with your "new" life! xx
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Re: Trying To Move On -
October 8th 2009, 01:33 PM
thats great news candy, i'm glad its over for you
"it's okay to be messed up, 'cause there's five guys who are just as messed up as you." - Gerard Way
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