Family Issues

[Ty-deedra-tydeirdre:)]

The day before yesterday, my back was hurting and so I went to lay down, (My back and my stomach hurt every single day), and it started hurting around the time we were supposed to be cleaning up. Its the second time it's hurt around the time of cleaning, and well, this time they really hurt my feelings.

My mother and my brothers were saying that theres nothing wrong with me and that I was a liar, and that really hurt my feelings. It hurt even more when I thought about what's going on with me. i mean, yesterday my aunt walked in and asked when is he do deedruh? and i asked her when is what do? and she put two arms out in front of her to indicate pregnancy.

All of this is taking a tole on me because my mom doesn't believe anything serious is going on with me. My eyes are very watery, and my stomach is growing. It could be a tumor, i think, but i don't really know. All I know is I'm growing and experiencing funny feelings that I shouldn't feel. what should I do?

Oh yea, and I decided against bc, which it really didn't matter because my mom didn't take me to my 2nd appointment any way.

this is my growing abdomen...

[Heartlines.]

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. Your mom doesn't sound very supportive. it sounds like your aunt is pqying attention though, which is great. Do you think you can tell your aunt what's going on, and she can take you to get a pregnancy test? If you aren't pregnant, and she won't take you to the doctor, do you think she would talk to your mom and tell her that you really should go to the doctor? Another thing you could do is go to the school nurse. If they feel anything is wrong, they can call your parents. Parents are more likely to listen to someone of authority or someone much older. Hang in there. I hope everything works out.

[Always&Forever]

I think before you should worry you should go get a pregnacy test because if its that then the baby can get treated an its vitamins so you can start eating right an such.. I am sorry your mom is not very supportive of you. Try to talk to your aunt about taking you to the doctor.Or you could maybe go to plan parenthood so the bill is cheaper. I hope you figure out what is going on. Your in my prayers..Message me if you wanna talk! =)

[Ty-deedra-tydeirdre:)]

Originally Posted by Always&Forever

I think before you should worry you should go get a pregnacy test because if its that then the baby can get treated an its vitamins so you can start eating right an such.. I am sorry your mom is not very supportive of you. Try to talk to your aunt about taking you to the doctor.Or you could maybe go to plan parenthood so the bill is cheaper. I hope you figure out what is going on. Your in my prayers..Message me if you wanna talk! =)

thanks...i really appreciate it..

[Allons-y!]

You need to go to the doctor and get a test.

[iHEAVENn]

Take a pregnancy test?
If it comes out positive you can show your mom the test, its pretty hard to deny a positive test that's in your face lol.
Also if you are pregnant you need to be seen by a doctor right away so he/she can tell you your options and how far along you are.