2 kids...maybe a 3rd under 3 yrs?

[rizz]

ok so for the last 2 weeks i have been feeling sick and running to the toilet to be sick, a few days ago i started cramping (happened with my 2nd) and my breast are getting sore but i wasn't overly worried because with all my other pregnaceies (so can't spell) my partner has told me i am before i even start feeling sick, he say's that its because my smell changes.

anyway he has been telling me to have a shower alot the last 2 weeks but i didn't think anything of it and when he asked if there was a chance i said no because he hadn't tol.d me i was, he never said that my smells changed...to that he replied "why do you think i have been asking you to have alot of showers" so now i'm freaking out!!!

iv'e been taking the pill...i don't need 3 kids under 3 and 4 step kids which we r trying 4 custody and with both my last preg's not one come back positive till i was 2-2 1/2 months with both.

if i am i have no idea what i am going to do, i wont get "rid of it" either

btw did i mention i have also been very moody and emotional?

[Aletheia*]

Well, as you know, I can't tell you if you're pregnant or not. You'll need to take a pregnancy test. Instead of taking a home test, you should go to your GP (general practitioner) and have a test done in the doctor's office. Lot's of things could be accounted for for why you've been feeling sick and the sore breasts. It's normal to want to jump to pregnancy first, but it's best to stay calm. If you're already experiencing symptoms, you might be further along than you think. So, you need to get a test done ASAP to determine whether or not you're pregnant. If you are, you need to think about ALL of your options, which include keeping him/her, terminating the pregnancy or putting him/her up for adoption. If you aren't pregnant, you should try to find a different form of birth control, like an IUD or implant that have a better success rate than the pill, and they last for up to 10 years.

[TakeMeHigher]

Go to the doctors and get a pregnancy test!
Your guy tells you to take showers and thinks he can tell when your pregnant because of your 'smell'? - that to me is just ridiculous !
as stated above, maybe try another form of contraceptiion which you don't have to takre every day, im really good at taking mine so i know its reliable but even when you take it a couple of hours out every day or so, the chances of pregnany increase. Just get to the doctors, don't wait 2 months to find out!

[rizz]

Originally Posted by TakeMeHigher

Go to the doctors and get a pregnancy test!
Your guy tells you to take showers and thinks he can tell when your pregnant because of your 'smell'? - that to me is just ridiculous !
as stated above, maybe try another form of contraceptiion which you don't have to takre every day, im really good at taking mine so i know its reliable but even when you take it a couple of hours out every day or so, the chances of pregnany increase. Just get to the doctors, don't wait 2 months to find out!

he has never been wrong so far...not with me or his ex (he has 6 kids) befor a test has even came back posative and i know other people who have said that their partners can pick it up by the females smell because when your pregnant it changes and they are around you so much they notice the change.

its not that i wait 2mths to find out its that with both of my girlz (1 and 3mths) not a urine or blood test has come back positive till i was that far along...and i know i was that far along because the ultra sound confirmed it.

with my first my partner told me i was preg days before i was due for my monthly (which never came) and i did test after test, saw drs over and over till 1 dr told me to wait a few weeks because sometimes the test (blood or urine) just dont show it which i did and i was preg

[Jocelyn.]

It wouldn't hurt to go ahead and take a test... whether it be an hpt or going to the doctor. If they come back negative just be aware that you may be pregnant and refrain from smoking/drinking/all those other bad activities to do while pregnant until you know for sure. Or let them know your situation and request an ultrasound.

Have you been taking the pill as directed? Taking it at generally the same time everyday, not missing any, not taking any antibiotics that could interfere... If you've done those things the chances of you being pregnant are pretty slim.

If it turns out you are pregnant again, since you've already said you won't "get rid of it", I wish you lots of luck and good health in your possible third pregnancy. Try and establish a good support system and don't be afraid to ask for help.

Good luck and I hope you get the results you are looking for.

[rizz]

ok so i took a urin test a few hrs ago and it showed up with 2 pink lines, it was very faint but still there (it was so faint i had to look a few times and even asked my partner to confirm if it was there), i even compared it to my test i did a few days ago and on that one there was no faint line.

i feel so numb and just want to cry and my partner does not want to talk about it either which is making this harder because we need to talk about it.

i'm going to go to the dr's today to get it confirmed.

[escape_thereal_world]

If the line was that faint, could it have just been an evaporation line? Definitely wait until a Doctor confirms it. Then I suggest getting you and your partner in Planned Parenthood (or someone else if you prefer) for some counseling since this sounds like something neither of you want right now. They can help with dealing with it and give you suggestions and resources.

[rizz]

thats what i thought at first which is y i compared it to the other test i did and on that there was no line.

and its not that we don't want it...we have always wanted more children just not right now, we are trying to get Michael's other children and the protective services are already saying that they are worried about us having six kids let alone seven

[escape_thereal_world]

That's understandable. Do you think you could support seven children? If you think you can financially and emotionally, then make sure the protective services are aware of that. Receipts for things you've bought your children (and if he has bought anything for his children) can help greatly in cases like this.