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Unhappy Im drunk and also in love with my best frinend - May 25th 2014, 12:01 AM

titlr about says it all. were both girls but she has a boyfriend and is pretty much straight and i told her i was over her tonight to make it less awkward but yeah i've been in love with her for a long time and it hurts so so bad.


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Re: Im drunk and also in love with my best frinend - May 25th 2014, 02:01 AM

Hey there,

I really am sorry to hear that you are in such a confusing situation! What do you think it would take to help you move on?

For example, for some people, limiting contact can really help them move on because they aren't always surrounded by the person they are trying to get over. Since she is your best friend, I don't know if you want to take that option or not.

It may also help to find ways to distract yourself when thoughts of her get to be too much. Maybe you can hang out with other friends and family to get your mind off her, join clubs or social groups, do a hobby, or exercise to release stress. Bake your favorite goods, take a warm bath or shower then curl up with a good book or movie, or have a day to just pamper yourself. It can help to take your mind off her sometimes.

Maybe you can use writing, art, or music to get out what you are feeling, You can even ask others what they do to get over people. You don't have to mention it's with a girl if you aren't out to them yet.

Know that even though these feelings are strong now, you WILL move on over time and you WILL find someone you can be with.

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