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NSFW? Questioning, I guess. Kinda just rant. - August 7th 2016, 06:09 AM

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I'm Jacob, 14, and I'm kinda in a crossroad.
Well, I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and I think I'm bi. *gasp*
Not really, I just try to make things funny to defuse my awkwardness. I've always liked girls, don't need detail, but I've notice lately I've been finding some of my guys friend kinda hot, and my brain goes off thinking about taking 'em down to pound town (why do I stay stuff like this) Also, I've been shipping guys together a lot, and looking at some... questionably un straight "art" on my Tumblr. To segway on, when I'm... let's just say home alone and with too much time, I've been noticing I've been watching more Bi and Gay "adult film" then straight. My lesbian friend told me once, "Can you see yourself in a relationship with another guy?" Thing is, kinda, but I kinda wish I was plain ol' boring straight. I know that contradicts most of what I just said, but fu- screw it.

I know this doesn't really go anywhere, I just usually keep tons of stuff inside, and I just want to spill it out. *sigh*
   
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Re: NSFW? Questioning, I guess. Kinda just rant. - August 7th 2016, 06:41 AM

Don't be ashamed of who you are of what you feel. It's perfectly normal for guys our age to go through stages where we find other guys attractive. I know I do. I'd say I'm Bi-Curious as I find girls attractive, but have a slight attraction to some guys too. I can't see myself in a relationship with another boy, but would be willing to experiment. If you are Bi, then as I said before its nothing to be ashamed of. If you don't want to have a relationship with another guy then don't. That's the advantage of liking both. Best of both worlds
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Re: NSFW? Questioning, I guess. Kinda just rant. - August 7th 2016, 02:52 PM

I agree with Jordan and there is nothing wrong with questioning your sexuality, especially not at your age. Don't be afraid to try out different things and there's plenty of time for you to figure out if you prefer guys or girls or if both are fine. It's hard to come to a decision without much experience, so my best advice would be to keep your mind and heart open and don't put any pressure on yourself (I doubt your shipping preferences have anything to do with your sexual orientation, some people just go together really well regardless of their gender )


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Re: NSFW? Questioning, I guess. Kinda just rant. - August 7th 2016, 08:42 PM

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Don't be ashamed of who you are of what you feel. It's perfectly normal for guys our age to go through stages where we find other guys attractive. I know I do. I'd say I'm Bi-Curious as I find girls attractive, but have a slight attraction to some guys too. I can't see myself in a relationship with another boy, but would be willing to experiment. If you are Bi, then as I said before its nothing to be ashamed of. If you don't want to have a relationship with another guy then don't. That's the advantage of liking both. Best of both worlds
Yeah, that's true. I mean, I've haven't kissed anyone, hell, I've never even held hands with someone, so I don't have a background to compare to, I'll see. I kinda just needed somewhere to rant, and anyways, I've infamous for denying stuff in my head, so there's that lol.
   
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