Are girls okay with guys being bisexual?

[SupremeCommander]

Heyy thereeee xD

Okay so like I know it depends on the person but are girls generally reluctant to be with bisexual guys?
I was reading a question some guy had asked elsewhere on the internet where he wanted to find out if girls would still go out with him even though he was bisexual and about 90% of the replies were saying no cause they found it weird, unnatural or wrong
So like are girls in general turned off by guys being bi?

[Soliloquy]

Hi!

I think there is a lot of confusion surrounding bisexuality. For some reason, there seem to be some people in this world who yes, are reluctant to date a bisexual person. Some instances are due to pure homophobia, while others seem to be under the impression that their bisexual partner is likely to drop them like they're hot at any moment for a member of the same sex. Of course, this is not true! Being bisexual does not make a person more likely to cheat on you.

While I can't speak for the vast majority of girls, I can tell you that I don't have any qualms with dating bisexual people. My girlfriend is bi. I do think that people are becoming much more open-minded about the sexuality and/or bi-curiosity of others in this day and age. It is not seen as completely out of the ordinary any longer when you come across someone who has had a same-sex experience. Many have had them.

My advice to you, though, would be to not care about what other people think. I know you were looking for a more specific answer, but the truth is, it really is down to the girl and her preferences. Any girl who is turned off by the fact that you are bisexual is not worth a second glance. She is not for you. Someday, you will meet someone who likes you for who you are!

Take care! xx

[DeadlySin]

I wouldn't mind it =P
I might actually find it kinda cute.

[ntguard19]

i don't have a prob with them my nephews dad is bi so i know my sister doesn't mind either. i think it is as long as they don't cheat or dump for op or same sex its all good

[boriz96nl]

I hope there not, i'm bi (feels good to say it anonymus on TH- no one knows it now)
but furter not different from anyone else; dont know what could be found weird about it

[Fanatic]

I think it is okay for a guy to be bisexual and I would date a bisexual guy. It's different and I never before dated one, but I think they would know how I feel being bisexual.

[Nenya]

I wouldn't mind. It'd be hypocritical if I did,

[Anonymity]

It depends on his definition of bisexual. If by bisexual he means he can be attracted to both males and females, yeah, that's fine, no problem. But if he's one of those people who seem to think that bisexual means having a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time, no.

[Toast]

I think it's kind of hot, actually.

[Berries and Cream]

I wouldn't mind just as long as he is faithful--I think I'm a pretty open person.

[Rainbow Dash]

Doesn't bother me at all. My ex boyfriend was bi

[Mehhhhhh]

A guy being bi doesn't bother me in the slightest

[Melody Pond]

My boyfriend is Bi so obviously I don't mind.
We have been going out for over 3 years and we had been going out for a year when he came out.

[Singing to the starlight]

I am fine with it, I do however know that some people that wouldn't be.

[Connie]

It would not bother me. I would treat him the same as i would a straight guy and have the same expectation ( no cheating)

[Lygophobia]

I dont know why, but i wouldnt like my boyfriend being bi. I dont mind guys being bi in general though.

[Illuminate]

I think it just totally depends on the type of person you date.
Some like the idea of dating a Bisexual person while others prefer not to.
I don't think there is any need to worry...I know quite a few Bi people, both guys and girls, of all ages.. and they don't seem to struggle having relationships whatsoever.

[Kitty.]

I want my guy to be straight.
Simply a personal preference.

[Algernon]

I wouldn't date a guy that's bisexual. I already have enough competition with the girls and I sure as hell don't need to compete with guys too, lol.

But I know several girls who actually find it a turn on.

[Ruin]

Well, I know I'm biased since I'm bi, but if I found a guy who was bi too, I'd be happy.

[Furubasu]

It really does depend on the person. I don't have a problem with it at all, but one of my best friends who is slightly homophobic would probably have a problem with it. Most of my friends, as far as I know, wouldn't really care as long as he was a good guy.

[alixthetree]

I personally don't think I would mind.

[llamasliketoparty]

I truely wouldn't care. I'd like to know, then we could talk to eachother about which guys/girls we think are hot haha. But other than that, the sexuality of my partner doesn't really matter to me.

[SupremeCommander]

Thanks for thee replies xD
I was just worried that I would like never have a serious girlfriend cause I thought most girls wouldn't be okay with it
But it's good to know that some are haha
Thanks again xD

[MichWolverineFreak]

Some might find it a little wierd but if you tell them after theyve known you a while, they might overlook it. Or suddenly find you creepy. It kinda depends on who it is.

[Anonymity]

Also, I'd have a problem if he discovered he was bi while he was with me. Coming out would be fine, but it would make me feel pretty self conscious in the relationship if he all of a sudden started liking guys, too.

[Melody Pond]

To all the people who said they wouldn't date someone who is bisexual:

What if you were dating them for a while and they came out while you were dating?
Would you break up with them straight away because they are bi?

[aislina0]

i'm totally ok with it.

i don't understand people's issues with bisexuality when they say that it means they can't trust their girl/boyfriend. there is just as much chance as with a totally gay/straight partner that they'll be untrustworthy.

[Astrael]

I'm completely fine with it, actually I think it's kinda hot. As long as the guy wouldn't cheat or something like that, it's fine. I'm also a very open person and know that while I'm not, homophobes do exist and wouldn't like it. It completely depends on the person.

[Jar Of Lemons]

Hai

I wouldnt mind being with a bisexual guy. Im okay with being friends with quite a few transgendered people, so why not bisexuals? Its kinda cool actuallly...everyones different and differences are great!

[ChaosControl]

I'd be absolutely OK with it, and know a lot of other girls wouldn't mind either. I know this is like positive prejudice, but I find bisexual boys tend to be more understanding than some straight ones. I know straight guys who are really offended by the idea of their girlfriend being bi...it's like, why? It doesn't make any difference if you're with the person you like.

Some girls might be a bit funny about the idea of dating a bi boy, but there are plenty who would be fine with it, and they're the ones who are worth your time.

[MaggzB]

I would not mind it! I know i would be very upset if someone wouldn't date me just because i find men and women atractive so why not be accepting of them

plus i kinda think my bf is and is strugling with it :/ idk why but i just have a feeling lolz

[xxpaigiexx]

Personally, I'd be fine with it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual. I'm bisexual myself and just because I'm bisexual it doesn't mean my boyfriend is contending with anyone else. My boyfriend knows this and it doesn't phase him in the slightest because he knows I won't run off with a girl or a guy, if I wanted to end the relationship I would do this before persuing anyone else.

[Her.Diamond.Heart]

Honestly, I'd love to date a bisexual guy xD I think it's kinda hot. Plus, I'm bi too.

[Soliloquy]

Since the OP seems to be satisfied with his replies and the responses are beginning to become slightly repetitive, I'm going to go ahead and close this thread. Please feel free to PM me with any questions or concerns!