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Only skin deep... Will my bf understand? -
January 1st 2012, 08:40 PM
I've known that I was bi for a pretty long time now. I've unwillingly kissed a girl, a girl has tried to get me to touch her boobs (we are both bi) and I admitted having a crush on my best friend who is straight. My friend was totally fine with it but she has a boyfriend and she says if I was a boy we would probably be going out by now. I have a boyfriend. I love him more than anyone and anything (including my best friend) but we were joking around the other day and I realized something: I'm not physically attracted to boys, only girls. My boyfriend and I were joking around and he said "I'm sexy, right?" I laughed, not knowing what else to do until I realized he was serious. He's only 13, and I have never ever thought of a guy as 'sexy' except for anime characters. So Uh... I Lied and told him yes. I feel so bad for lying but what else was I supposed to say? I don't walk down the hall in school thinking "Ooh he's cute" but I have seen a girl and thought that she had a nice body. My boyfriend knows I'm bi, but he doesn't know that I'm not physically attracted to him. Is it better to just leave things unsaid? I don't want to break the relationship.
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Re: Only skin deep... Will my bf understand? -
January 1st 2012, 09:52 PM
Being bi is harder than being straight or gay, I know how tough this must be for you. It's definetly best to leave that unsaid. If my girlfriend told me that she wasn't attracted to me phisically it would get very akward. That alone could probably end a relationship. Just remember, don't let him pressure him to doing anything you don't want to do. I would tell him this if he starts pressuring you into doing something that you don't want to do phisically, but only then.
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Re: Only skin deep... Will my bf understand? -
January 3rd 2012, 09:52 PM
I sometimes (okay, most the time) find women more attractive than men, so I do get what you are saying. I am engaged to a man, but I do agree with the person above: Being Bisexual can sometimes seem harder than any other sexuality, because you can sometimes feel torn between two different kinds of attractions, I suppose. I would leave everything unsaid - just in case you hurt his feelings.
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