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medic2013 May 8th 2012 01:58 AM

So... me and my boyfriend is living together and we are fighting with each other b/c i want to have a kid and he acts like he doesn't want to have a kid. Right now, b/c we are fighting, hes sleeping in the other bedroom b/c he knows if he trys to get the same bed with me that i will flip b/c of the way he is acting. What can we do to fix this problem

Eternal May 8th 2012 03:01 AM

You need to have a civil conversation about this. Is he just 'acting' like he doesn't want a kid, or has he told you that? If he isn't ready to have a child with you, then don't press it. You both need to be emotionally ready for this, having a kid is a big deal and not something that should be decided upon impulse.
Wait until you have both calmed down, and sit him down and communicate. I think it would be best to wait until tomorrow because you both should feel better after you've gotten some sleep.

medic2013 May 8th 2012 03:07 AM

this has been going on for a while

Eternal May 8th 2012 03:13 AM

Have you two talked about it though? Without getting upset and having to leave the room? It would be a good idea to make sure that you're seeing eye to eye about this.

medic2013 May 8th 2012 03:24 AM

Yea. Each time we try to talk it always end up in a fight

Eternal May 8th 2012 05:18 AM

You need to both make sure you keep your emotions in check. If you one of you finds that you're starting to get mad, then just walk away for a little bit and continue when you've calmed down. You won't get anywhere if you both are just yelling at each other whenever you have a problem. You need to be able to communicate well in order for your relationship to work out.

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