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PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 22nd 2012, 08:39 PM

Well i have this boyfriend who i love well i really like him and yesterday he told me that he either has to drop a close friend or break up with me and it type hurt me i saw him today and i just completely ignored him i was mad and he knows i was too but i know the right thing to do is to let him be with his best friend you know its the thing girlfriends come and go but best friends are there but i'm just afraid to lose him were about to go on four months being together i just need advice before i approach him
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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 22nd 2012, 08:54 PM

Hi Stephanie.

You need to chat to him. Do you know why he is in this situation? Is a friend making him choose between you and them?

If yous do have to break up, it will hurt and it will take time to get over it, but all I can really advise is to keep yourself busy, do things you enjoy doing and spend time with friends and family.
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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 23rd 2012, 05:10 PM

hey girl!!
i think you should leave your boyfriend alone for a couple of days, and let him think about his decision. After a couple of days, id suggest that you give him a call and talk to him again.
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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 23rd 2012, 07:29 PM

Why exactly does he need to choose between you and his friend? Like the others said, it's time to talk to him alone. He knows you're upset and probably doesn't know if he should approach you or not.

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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 24th 2012, 06:12 AM

Talk to him about it!! Find out why he has to choose between you two. And be a sweet as possible, so don't fight. He knows your hurt and that is enough. So talk to him, it might just all be a misunderstanding
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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 24th 2012, 02:11 PM

I agree with everyone else, I don't know why he has to choose between you guys... but I would talk to him about this alone!
Remember to be kind, and try not to fight, but explain how you feel and ask about how he is feeling and what is going on in his life right now.

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Re: PLEASE HELP , WHAT SHOULD I DO???? - July 26th 2012, 01:20 AM

Since the OP has created a new thread here, I am closing this thread.

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