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Exclamation Getting over it… - January 16th 2013, 02:22 PM

The more I think about it the more I wish he would call or text just to prove to me he still exists… that wasn't just pretending all along! Me and this 'ex' dated thru text from October 2011- July 2012 (1 month break in April) and while I had mixed feeling throughout the relationship I feel as if I lost a part of me when he just dropped off the face of the earth (stopped replying to my texts) no one knows we ever dated because of the age difference. He said he would wait until I graduated but I was skeptical about many things because I didn't want to have my heart broken… thing is now after he (for no apparent reason) stopped replying to my texts… on July 21st 2012
I haven't been able to move on, what should I do?

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Re: Getting over it… - January 18th 2013, 10:01 AM

if you can't move on, you can't move on...nothing anyone says is going to change that unless you are really done and over it...

obviously he made some sort of impact (via text messages) which makes it hard on you to "forget him" or to move on...take some time to understand why you are feeling this way maybe by writing it out on a journal or talking to a close friend. and then maybe instead of "getting over him" utilize those memories as a passage...think of it as self-growth. knowing how you are as a person, what you expect from others, and what you expect in your future.
but again that is when you feel that you are truly ready because no one can force you to forget someone only you can make that decision.

smile!, tomorrow will be a better day!
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