Mom Forcing Breakup

[cloudy_megs]

Hi
I am 13 and I was deeply in love with my boyfriend Paul. We were extremely good friends before we started dating and once we did we were both incredibly happy. However my mom didn't know and I told him about that. He broke up with me one morning because he didn't want my parents to be mad. I told my mom about him later in the day and I feel sick to my stomach and I want to die because I love him so much and he loves me too it's just I don't think my mom will let us date. I am truly heartbroken because I lost my boyfriend and more importantly, my moms trust. What should I do? I don't think I can handle much more of this:,(

[Eternal]

This may come off as a little insensitive and I'm sorry about that, but you're only 13; you're barely a teenager right now. You still have a lot of your life ahead of you, which means that you have plenty of time for relationships in the future. I'm not going to tell you that you didn't love your boyfriend just because you're young, but I do what to emphasize that you will have multiple more relationships in the future. So don't let this one break up make you feel like you'll be alone forever.
So you told your mom about Paul? Did she say you are not allowed to date him?
While it can be tough to loose someone's trust, you will always have a chance to get it back. Just make sure to be honest with her from now on and let her know about what is going on in your life.