what to do

[Amandaapandaa]

Hey,

As some of you know I had a crush on the boy across the street from me and in April he got a girlfriend instead of following through with his feelings for me. I'm over him for the most part but I dont know if it would be a good idea to see him again. I havent seen him since May and we never talk anymore. Should I see him or just ignore him? I'm friends with his sister and its kind of awkward now to be outside in case he is there. I'm also afraid of what emotions will take over me once I see him.

Advice please?

Xx,
Manda

[luckiicloverxx]

Hey Manda,

If you are, as you say, for the most part over him, then there shouldn't be many feelings that bubble to the surface when you see him again. Even if there are some, I don't believe that it will be anything that you can't handle. It's always better to try and not have any awkwardness between yourself and past boyfriends / crushes, especially when you're good friends with people in their lives. I would say to not ignore him and not seek him out either. You two not talking since for a while since he got this girlfriend could make him get the wrong idea if you just go see him again. Just be friendly when he's around, and I trust that you'll be able to get your friendship back

Feel free to message me!

Kyra

[Amandaapandaa]

Hey there,

Does you mean I should start to go for a friendship with him again or did you mean the friendship with his sister? They are moving away in the next couple of months.. Don't know how to feel about that really. I think and hope it is for the better.

I miss those good old times with him though </3

[luckiicloverxx]

Originally Posted by Amandaapandaa

Hey there,

Does you mean I should start to go for a friendship with him again or did you mean the friendship with his sister? They are moving away in the next couple of months.. Don't know how to feel about that really. I think and hope it is for the better.

I miss those good old times with him though </3

I've replied you on PM

Kyra

[Divergentfinatic]

Hey Manda, I think that you should still communicate to him him at least. As in communicate i mean say Hi/Bye and see where it takes you from there. I If he isn't still with his girlfriend, then you can definietly try to communicate more than just a Hi/Bye and maybe if he isnt moving that far then maybe you can ask him to hang out as friends.

Hope this helped, Have a nice night.

[Amandaapandaa]

Thank you for your help!

I believe he is still with his girlfriend for now. I don't know if he is dating her because of sexual interests oranything. I really thought that him & I were eventually going to be together but obviously no. I still have some feelings for him but I know when he moves away it will all change. I dont really know what the right way to feel about him is and I know I can't control these feelings... I wish I could juatbforget them but he has given me such good memories.

Anyways,

Thank you

Manda

[Amandaapandaa]

Do you think there might be a chance that he will date me one day? Its a crazy question...

[luckiicloverxx]

Originally Posted by Amandaapandaa

Do you think there might be a chance that he will date me one day? Its a crazy question...

Well, do you know the reason why he didn't follow through with his feeling for you?

[Amandaapandaa]

No, I don't know any reason why... Unless it was because my parents were more strict with dating rules but if he really cared about me that wouldn't matter right?

[Amandaapandaa]

I saw him tonight in person. I didn't talk to him one on one but he looked at me weird. Then he wouldn't mention his girlfriend in front of me while trying to explain something about his girlfriend to his sister. What does this mean? I'm so confused. I felt awkward. I tried my best not to look at him. I got all tense...

[Amandaapandaa]

Could someone please help me figure this out?

[luckiicloverxx]

Originally Posted by Amandaapandaa

No, I don't know any reason why... Unless it was because my parents were more strict with dating rules but if he really cared about me that wouldn't matter right?

Yeah it wouldn't. About the meeting him thing, I'm really not sure how to interpret that because I wasn't there. Maybe he knows that you still like him and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

[Amandaapandaa]

Yeah maybe. I think I just need to move on from him because he is moving in the next few months and I might be moving next summer so I think its best to let it go. Thanks for all your help!