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Unhappy So... What do I do? - May 27th 2015, 09:31 PM

Okay, I'm bi. I have a boyfriend, but something's been missing from the relationship. And I honestly think it's because I'm lesbian. Like, I think boys are cute and whatnot, but I'd rather be with a girl. I don't know.

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Re: So... What do I do? - May 28th 2015, 02:42 AM

Hi there,

I think that this is something you need to put some thought into. Would you ever be happy with your current boyfriend, or would the feeling of something missing end up making you unhappy? Could you see yourself being with him, or not? This isn't something you have to decide on right away, but do think about it.

If you don't think that you can be happy again or you'll always feel like something is missing, it may be time to make a decision. If you want, you can talk things out with him and see if there is anything that can be improved in the relationship, but if you do determine that it is your sexuality that is doing it, it may be best to break things off.

This is because you don't deserve to be unhappy, and neither does he. He can find someone that he is happy with, and you can as well. It may feel upsetting at first, but in the end hopefully both of you can move on and be happy.


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