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First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 02:54 PM

I don't know what's wrong with me. I have really bad anxiety and I don't know if I can do this. Let me start from the beginning.

My guy friend and I are starting to get closer. We went to the mall yesterday as a "friend" thing and everything was great, but my friend was there, too. Kind of awkward. O.o So it was us three and yeah... After we got home, he texted me and said he wanted to kiss me, but my friend was there. I'm really scared, because I've never kissed a guy before. :/ My anxiety gets in the way of everything. ): I'm not sure what to do. I want to kiss him, but....I'm scared. Advice please? Much thanks. xx
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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 03:01 PM

Most people get scared of their first kiss, I know I did but there really isn't much to be scared about! If you tell him that you're scared about having your first kiss together maybe you could talk about it beforehand so it isn't going to be unexpected, which could help and when it happens my best advice would be to go with it because it's simple enough. x
   
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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 03:03 PM

First I'd ask myself why I'm scared of kissing him. If its because you think you might be a bad kisser, don't worry. Its your first kiss, it won't be perfect. He must love you, so he'll be understanding and I guarantee that he'll enjoy that kiss no matter what. Don't be afraid, just let it come naturally.

I was SO nervous before my first kiss, so this kind of thing is normal. Just don't let it get in the way of that special moment, okay?


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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 03:05 PM

First kisses are always nerve wracking

Just tell him that youre anxious, and maybe let him lead, and take control? If this isn't his first kiss me may not be as nervous, and that could calm you quite a bit. Go with it, and I'm sure it'll be great! Take care.

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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 06:42 PM

Like everyone else has said, talk with him if you are nervouse about the kiss

Good luck!
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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 09:56 PM

Hey Maurana,

If he didn't kiss you, though he wanted to; I would take that as a likelyhood that he is scared of the kiss as well. I'll agree with everyone that it is normal to be scared or anxious when having a first kiss. It isn't going to be perfect. Think of it as a learning experience. I think a good way to look at it is that future kisses after your first one will get better with more time.
   
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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 10:04 PM

i'm gunna have to disagree with others that have already posted, i definitely wouldn't tell him that you're anxious about it. idk.. i think that'll just probably make him feel all weird about it as well? mehh.. just go for it! it's really not that scary once you take the plunge as it were. everyone is a bit anxious before their first kiss, so don't worry about it. just relax and let it happen.


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Re: First kiss and I'm scared. O.o - May 17th 2009, 10:15 PM

Thanks everyone. (: I told him that I was nervous and he was very understanding about it, which is good. Though, I'm still scared. My anxiety gets in the way of everything.
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