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I'm female but I like guys who are Gay is that weird? - July 13th 2016, 11:39 AM

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Re: I'm female but I like guys who are Gay is that weird? - July 13th 2016, 09:51 PM

no It is not weird, you are attracted to who you are, I have been attracted to gay guys, it happens and you are not alone
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Re: I'm female but I like guys who are Gay is that weird? - July 13th 2016, 11:00 PM

Heya I wouldn't say that it's weird at all. I mean, it's obviously problematic, but it happens... I've definitely been attracted to gay guys before. I think it has something to do with the fact that they were more effeminate than other guys I'd met, which to me would suggest a more emotional connection, which to me is important in attraction (I'm not saying that most or all gay guys are effeminate, but I suspect that it's more likely to find an effeminate gay guy than an effeminate straight guy). Maybe that would explain it, I don't know... but i wouldn't be alarmed by it in the slightest.

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Re: I'm female but I like guys who are Gay is that weird? - July 15th 2016, 12:18 AM

Aside from the obvious flaw in that a gay guy is off limits because he's gay and your not a man, I don't think it's weird. It could be for a number of reasons, like maybe you're more comfortable with guys who you know aren't objectifying you (probably the wrong word but hopefully you catch my drift) or maybe you're just into a certain quality you associate with gay guys or something. In any case, attraction evolves so I'm sure you'll be fine.

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