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Prescription for a broken heart! - July 18th 2009, 10:42 AM

Being heartbroken is a pain that no one can understand until they have experienced it for themselves. You obviously have, therefore are aware of how fragile your heart is right now. Healing a broken heart will take time, but is not impossible, though it may feel that way at the time. It is never an easy process to go through, but with the right prescription, you will be on your way to recovery and happiness again.

The first thing you should keep in mind is that it is okay to feel sad and grieve about what happened and that you are not stupid for doing so. It is perfectly normal to feel sad and cry after a break up. You have invested most of your time and all of your love and interest into your ex-partner; therefore will go through a sad and painful withdrawal. It is notable that you not grieve all on your own. Sure, there will be times when you will just want to be alone and undisturbed. However, it is important that you talk to your friends and family about it. Talking about it is not only healthy, but will mend your heart quicker because you will release the thoughts and facts that are hurting you so much. Seeking professional advice will be a great help to you as well because your mind will open up and see new perspectives and understandings of what happened. It will help you gather your strength, pick yourself up, and find the happiness you deserve to have.

Accepting the fact that you and your ex-partner are no longer together is a necessity if you are going to start mending your broken heart. If you catch yourself unable to function due to constantly thinking about your ex or repeatedly calling or visiting him or her for another chance, then chances are you are suffering from love addiction and should seek counseling. Discontinuing a serious relationship is emotionally challenging and can drive you to do things that are unhealthy for your self-being. To avoid entering such hazardous areas, keep yourself occupied. Go out with your friends and family to help get your mind off the break up. It is best to spend as less time alone as you can in the first few weeks of your breakup so that your emotions can slowly and patiently form back into their normal pattern.

Fight the thoughts that tell you that you are a failure and are to blame for the end of your relationship. When a relationship ends it means that the two of you were no longer compatible and that always takes two, not just you. Instead of beating yourself up over what has transpired, examine your ex-relationship by listing the things you enjoyed most about it and then the things that disappointed you and what you believe really caused the breakup. Look at the relationship as a learning experience and an opportunity to improve your relationship skills, and a way to realize what you truly need and want from a romantic relationship.
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Re: Prescription for a broken heart! - July 18th 2009, 05:53 PM

You are a graduate of enormous porportions of the fragile heart. Advice is your forte

This should be a sticky!


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Re: Prescription for a broken heart! - July 18th 2009, 07:43 PM

Great job, I'm in that boat right now and it helped. This SHOULD be stickied. Amazing post!





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Re: Prescription for a broken heart! - July 18th 2009, 08:13 PM

Thanks a lot for this, it was well thought out. And I'm suffering through the ole' heart break currently...


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Re: Prescription for a broken heart! - July 18th 2009, 10:45 PM

I wish i couv'e shown this to my b/f this when we first started going out, woud've make the whole thingy with his ex easyer for him....STICKY THIS !!!
   
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Re: Prescription for a broken heart! - July 19th 2009, 01:33 AM

This is awesome I wish I had this when I was going through my heartbreak.


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