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Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 05:07 PM

Guys message you a lot?
Like on FB or MSN?
I just realised, I've been messaging this girl quite a bit, and I:
a. don't want her to get the wrong impression
b. to get freaked out and not like me.

I don't like her in THAT way, but I don't want her to get freaked out..
   
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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 05:10 PM

I think a girl might, because it can make you seem desperate if shes not replying and things like that.
   
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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 05:12 PM

ouch. Well that's not an impression I want to give lol.
Plus I'm not so yeah >_>
   
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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 05:20 PM

Hey Matthew,

It really depends on how you approach the conversation. I do not think I would be freaked out if a male friend messaged me and said "hey, what's up?" semi-frequently. However, staying in touch this much could give her the impression that you like her as more than a friend. If this is not the case, I would try to back off just a little, to avoid any confusion.

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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 05:36 PM

It really depends on what the messages are. If you're just friendly chatting, then no.


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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 06:18 PM

It's more like:
me: hi
her: hi
me: you ok?
her: yeah
me: kl. *insert something interesting here*
   
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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 07:01 PM

she might assume you like her if you wanna talk all the time




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Re: Do you get freaked out if... - September 27th 2009, 07:14 PM

Hmm it'd depend if I liked him or not and it'd also depend how long he messaged me a lot too. At first if a guy I liked messaged me a lot it'd make me feel special but if it was constant and a few weeks down the line he was still messaging me a lot then it could get a bit annoying.



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