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hurt, lost, confused - need help... - January 8th 2012, 04:45 PM

i have a lot of issues.
i feel as though i'm not good enough for anyone, i'm worthless and all i want to do is be alone. i've been hurt so many times that i just can't do it anymore. ive been sad for i dont even know how long. i cant seem to feel happy. i feel like my family doesn't understand me and they just joke about things that actually hurt me. i don't trust people easily and not many people have the time to wait around for me to trust them. i was in a bad break up and i haven't been able to get back into the dating scene since. i was hanging out with a guy and completely fell for him and i ended up getting hurt anyways. i dont want a relationship because im scared of getting hurt even more, my heart still hasn't healed but i do want a relationship because i'm sick of being alone.
i wish i had someone to talk to that would make things make sense to me.
   
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Re: hurt, lost, confused - need help... - January 8th 2012, 07:28 PM

Right now, it's best to stay single. You need to heal, and if your heart isn't healed, you can't have a relationship with someone else. They might think you're using them as a rebound, and nobody should feel that way. In order to be happy with someone else, you need to be happy with yourself. Be in a relationship because you want one, not because you need one.











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Re: hurt, lost, confused - need help... - January 8th 2012, 09:31 PM

Don't get into a relationship until you feel ready.
You don't want to be paranoid during your relationship, and if a breakup happens it might really hurt you. The fact that you said you just want to be alone is also what makes me believe its best for you to stay single for now.
You should spend some time with friends and family, they may help cheer you up.
Remember that not every guy is going to hurt you as they have in the past. The good news is you are done with those guys, and now you can move on to something better.


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Re: hurt, lost, confused - need help... - January 9th 2012, 12:04 AM

Thank you for the replies.
I guess being single is the best thing for me right now.
It just really sucks to be alone and heart broken.
I hate the feeling and I want to get rid of it.
Single is 100% the way I need to be for a while longer.


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Re: hurt, lost, confused - need help... - January 9th 2012, 01:25 AM

I can understand you feeling lonely, but rebound relationships or relationships that are only to help the loneliness never work out. You should only be with someone who you actually have feelings for.
Spending time with friends and family can help the loneliness.


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