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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.
it has been a little more then a month! i am hoping that i never will do it again too....good job to everyone for not SH!!
"Damaged people are dangerous because they know they can survive."
"Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow."
"Challenges are what make life interesting."
"We can draw lessons from the past, but we cannot live in it."
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.
2 days this is harder then usual..im not sure about this..
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.
I tried it because it felt like something that would relieve the emotional pain. Rather than trying to solve my problems and figure out why I was hurting, if I self harmed it was easy to know why I was hurting. I was in physical pain. It moved everything to make a little more sense.
I really don't have a clue why I started.
Lik I was feeling really shit at that point and I had just broken up with my bf of the time, who turned out to be a dick, he said he wished he never met me and that I don't ever deserve to be happy cuz I'm such a bad person
And for some reason, I thought of SH'ing and I did.
But anyone who has done it before, will say that it is sooo hard to give up, no matter how much you want to give up.
For me, its been 3 months, 2 weeks and 6 days since I last SH'ed.
I'm happy.
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great!
Last edited by Jack; October 9th 2009 at 10:08 PM.
Reason: Removing reference to deleted post.
Mmm tonight is hard. I'm struggling a lot. Talk me out of it so I can make it to day four... ):
Come on, You Can do it
Let's aim for a week
Once you reach that, aim for 2 weeks.
I've been struggling a lot recently, but I've kinda made a promise to myself that I'm gonna stop.
I'm so much happier now I've quit.
Why is it hard for you tonight??
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Just a lot of stuff going on right now. I might have to share a room with my little sister while my sister's boyfriend heals from heart surgery, the guy I really really like/my best friend is ignoring me, and homework is stressing me out to no end. ): I'm really worried about my grandpa too cause he has a disease that can't be cured and he's dying from it. )':
Just a lot of stuff going on right now. I might have to share a room with my little sister while my sister's boyfriend heals from heart surgery, the guy I really really like/my best friend is ignoring me, and homework is stressing me out to no end. ): I'm really worried about my grandpa too cause he has a disease that can't be cured and he's dying from it. )':
Hey, I know things are hard for you right now, but don't hurt yourself.
It's only gonna make things worse.
Right now, i think you should do something to take ur mind of things.
Go for a walk, listen to loud music, go for a nap. lol
Come on, let's reach this target of a week
You can do it.
Be strong
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."