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That's not exactly a good reason.

This is a debating forum. If you are unable to handle people debating your points, or highlighting the fact that you don't really have the knowledge to back up what you are saying, and therefore result to calling them "rude", I would yes advise you to stay out of "ridiculous" threads such as these.

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I am yes.
Personally I don't think a towel/ blanket is necessary or practical, and I for one will definitely not use this method. I do agree with being courteous however.
There are many things available that make breast feeding discreet, tops/ bra's ect... and I will use these (The amount of money I've spent on breast feeding tops/ bras I would kick myself if I didnt)

I don't think a mother should be made to go out of her way to hide the fact she is breast feeding, especially if she's being discreet, I've been around many breast feeding women and theres not much to see anyway. Just a baby attached to mums chest.
If a girl can walk around in a low cut top with a huge amount of breast showing, whats wrong with a mother showing a small amount (of huge breast) with a baby hiding the 'unsocial' bits.


That made me chuckle...

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Absolutely not. I would not eat my food in the bathroom because I'm not a desperate human being who is dieing of starvation. As I've said, I can live 5 minutes without eating my food to assist to a hungry baby. Keep in mind that bathrooms aren't the only places that are unsanitary. Restaurants themselves can be unsanitary, too. So if you want to bring the unsanitary business into the argument, then you might as well not be in a restaurant that is unsanitary. Or in a smoking environment, or anything that puts your child's health in jeopardy. If you want clean environments, then you definitely don't want to be in public.

Name-calling...that's effective.

Well, as I've said, milk bottle. Milk bottle, milk bottle, milk bottle. Milk bottle. I'm 20 years old, I've seen plenty of babies cry in public. The name-calling is irrelevant to this debate, so I will completely disregard that false statement. Just because your baby is crying doesn't mean you need to breast feed. I've seen NUMEROUS of times babies crying that resulted in parents getting the handy dandy milk bottle out of the bag. Numerous...and it's worked every single time! Imagine that!

Nice! Way to take things personally and get offensive just because I disagree with something that you agree with. Let's just change this from debate forum to FLAME WARS! YEAAAH!

Yeah, but no...seriously, I never said that bathrooms were the most sanitary places to breast feed your child. I'm saying it's an option. And like I said, it's not just bathrooms that are unsanitary. Just because it's not a bathroom doesn't mean that your child is completely safe. Just because I disagree with public breast feeding doesn't mean it would offend me. Don't let your anger get the best of you. Remember that this is a debate forum, not a flame war forum.

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You seem to have presumed yourself to be able to read tone of voice over the internet, however you are entirely false. Why exactly you think I am angry boggles me. One thread on the internet (hence, I do not take things personally) really is not significant enough in my life to evoke much emotion at all ;). "You" was directed generally at people who would be offended, not specifically YOU, BRANDON.

Bathrooms carry far more germs and are far more unsantiary than most areas. Surely simple logic allows you to dermine that much?

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Mothercare and some large stores do have breast feeding facilities in place - just thought I'd point it out.
And obviously if a breast feeding area was provided it would be used

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Can we please stay on topic... ?

Myuss still hasent even awnserd the question

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This thread is pretty good. I like the arguments, even when people have nothing else better to say that I'm ignorant :p. I'd love to debate more, but after this post...I'm done for tonight because I have to do my homework :glare:

If you have evidence to support that, then that's fine. I can understand. I'm sure you want to bite my head off, but I'm not against breast feeding. If you breast feed in public and no one sees...then there's no harm and no fowl to that. At the same time, if I masturbated in public and no one saw...then that's also no harm and no fowl. As long as people don't know that you're breastfeeding, then it wouldn't be an issue. Over where I live, it'd be awkward because you rarely...and do I mean RARELY as in practically NEVER or even NEVER, see a woman breastfeeding in public. It all depends on the location and who you're around. If breast feeding is acceptable in New York and I go to New York and find women breast feeding...I'm not gonna be like "God hates you", I'm gonna look for a couple seconds and then readjust to my environment. Simple as that. And my point about sanitation is that if you're concerned about sanitation, you shouldn't even be in public. Bathrooms are potentially less sanitary than other places, but that doesn't mean bathrooms aren't options. If you're gonna breast feed in public, might as well change the diaper in public too.



It's not about what you say...it's about how you say it. You could of worded a lot more differently. Your word choice was a lot more negative than positive, perhaps you've learned that in English class or not, but if you haven't...how you say something can dramatically impact your message. For instance what you also said:

Do you not find that kind of negative? You basically just said "surely you're smart enough to know that bathrooms are more unsanitary than restaurants". Of course I know that, but that doesn't completely dismiss restaurants either. If you're going to still tell me that your message WASN'T negative, then I'll know for sure that you've got a bit of an attitude. Which is cool cause sometimes debates get heated because you feel strongly about something. But don't let your strong disagreement get the best of you.

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It's a debate it's not meant to go anywhere, we just debate :)

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If I choose to breastfeed my baby, I will also bottle the breastmilk. If the baby prefers the bottle, I can continue to use a breast pump. If this becomes painful or if there is any other issue, I will feed my child formula.

back on topic.
The problem is with women like myself who are not willing to use formula unless absolutely necessary. I don't think its fair that I should have to risk your scenario because others find feeding 'disgusting'

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Seeing all of the responses in this Thread i really cant wait to have a kid (sarcasm)

Even though me and my Gf would be splitting the care responsiblities

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You say you want to debate properly Brandon, but all you seem capable of doing is resulting to patronising and insulting. What's the crack?

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Sorry but if my child was wanting to be fed and i was breast feeding the child, i'd just breast feed it. You have a problem with it don't look or say it to my face.

Because tbh breast feeding is beautiful bonds the mother and child together and gives the child the nurtaints it needs.

As for the going to the toilet and doing, pfft some toilets i wouldnt even change a nappy in never mind feed a child.

I've seen lots of women breast feeding.

I just smile at them, i thinks it's a amazing thing. :)

I'm defoo breast feeding if/when i have a child. It's natural so why shouldnt you.
Some people just need to open there eyes and grow up.

It's life, get over it.

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I have to agree... I think breastfeeding is beautiful and cant wait to do it.

I'm curious how many of the people against breastfeeding would complain or confront a mother breastfeeding in public?

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That post is irrelevant to the discussion, however I will go ahead and respond.

I wasn't obligating you to answer my thread. It would've been nice, considering the fact that I created that thread yesterday (the day before my test). Now that my test is over and done with, I no longer need any help. Regardless, it would've been nice if you attempted to answer my questions even IF it didn't really matter. I STILL would greatly appreciate it if you did answer my question. I don't take anything personally over the internet because I can completely understand you're position and why you would breast feed in public. I'm a guy...what do I know...right? Well, I apologize if I offended...which...wasn't my intention but if you feel offended by what I have said then I apologize.

Now, to summarize my beliefs about breast feeding in public is that if society says it's acceptable, then it's acceptable. Because I live in Georgia, I never see women breast feeding in public...and therefore, it would be awkward. Would I be offended? Absolutely not. I'd probably be like anyone else and look away. But I said all of the things I said because I wanted to emphasize that there's always a good time and a bad time to breast feed. It depends on the restaurant, and it depends on the people around you.

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I'd rather get my breasts out than have my child scream.

If anyone confronted me if/when i was doing it, i'd be like okay so you don't want me to contuine because you find it disgusting, okay , so you want my child to scream and scream do you?

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It really is I hope I too have the privaledge to breast feed a child :)

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I am not offended by it at all. I love babies and breast feeding is natural. :D

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What you're doing is hilarious. You keep saying you're done with this thread yet you keep returning. If you're done, then you're done, hence leave the thread but if you keep returning, then clearly you're not done. It makes no sense to say "I'm done" despite returning and continuing to post.

You keep getting asked questions because, as explained above, I'll assume many people here who are asking you don't believe when you say you're done. If you notice, the questions are the same, simply explain your reasoning. It's a debate, you give your view and you explain via argument. If you cant or don't want to do that, then don't come to threads where it's explicitly stated it's a debate because it leads to issues like the current one: people are confused and/or curious about your view and want clarification but you refuse to give it, you just re-state your view but don't give the explanation, which is what is needed.

I'm not going to quote all your responses, so I'll just answer them all at once. Making people feel awkward doesn't mean it's inappropriate or shouldn't be done. Suppose I go to a funeral with a baby and the baby is whining and crying endlessly. That's awkward for me but like any reasonable person, I'd try to get the baby to be quiet. Supposing I were a female, if I didn't want to bottlefeed (i.e. formula or breast-pump), then I'd whip'em out and have the baby go because I should get the baby quiet. However, something being awkward doesn't mean it's inappropriate, so your explanation doesn't support your conclusion.

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Okay, just throwing this out there, but could we stay on topic and act civil please? This nonsense, the fighting, needs to stop now. You can disagree all you want, but debate the subject, not the person. If you don't want to debate, then just stop posting. Thank you.

And, my opinion on breast feeding, well my sister breast feeds and bottle feeds her baby, so she uses bottles in public. But, she also has a nursing shawl, so that she can nurse if others are around, and I think it's okay to nurse in public in some situations.

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Wow, so no respect for the other people trying to eat? That would bother me. I don't really care much if it's outside randomly, but I don't want someone breastfeeding near me in a restaurant. I think it's very rude to just assume that since you don't find it gross, everyone else shouldn't either, particularly when eating.

Don't they make a sucking sound? That bothers me. I also don't like eating watermelon around other people because the sound bothers me. Don't say "don't listen" because you can't just decide to stop hearing for a certain amount of time.

In your opinion. I find it gross and messy. Slobbery milk? Even the thought grosses me out. Now I'm not going to drink milk for the rest of the evening...

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