Really want my girlfriend to orgasm

[Admon]

Okay so she says she has never had one which I believe. I was her first. So I've been trying to give her one with fingering and oral but i cant! She has this thing where when I touch her clit, her leg twitches. Normally she can handle it but when she gets kinda close to finally orgasming, it gets really bad and she cant handle the twitching anymotr. So what should i do?!

[Henry Tyrell]

Generally speaking, the leg twitching means you're getting her closer to an orgasm. If she's comfortable, power through the leg twitching and hopefully succeed in an orgasm.

[Admon]

It's just that she stops me when it gets bad. Maybe ill just see if she will try and take as much as she can. Then wr will see!

[Henry Tyrell]

Yes, I used to do that as well. It's hard to overcome that feeling- of being overwhelmed. It's too easy to stop and back off and not go through. It just takes work and well, sexual frustration to work through it.

[Harmony♥]

Leg twitching is a good thing. Maybe your girlfriend doesn't know this!

However, something the above poster didn't mention, a lot of woman CAN'T orgasm through intercourse or manual stimulation alone. And some just can't orgasm at all. Not to burst your bubble, but it's true. Only a certain percentage (and I'm not sure what the percentage is currently) can orgasm through intercourse or manual stimulation alone. Some just need more of a push to get to that point. It might happen for her, it might not. Rest assured that it's neither your fault or hers if it doesn't happen. It's just one of the crappy parts of being a female.

[bitesize]

I know it's frustrating, but I think the best thing is to just let it happen. Also, make sure that you don't make her feel pressured to have an orgasm ~ that doesn't help the situation!!
You could try switching it up and doing lots of things, but try and put the focus on her feeling good, not necessarily her climaxing. My first orgasm came as a total surprise when my boyfriend at the time had been trying to make it happen for eight months ~ and it was through neither fingering, oral, or sex.

[Skeleton]

You could always try different ways to try giving her an orgasm, maybe just try having fun instead of both of you focusing on making her orgasm, if you take the pressure of the need to make her orgasm and focus on just having fun and enjoy yourself, you might find it happens.

[Jack Lowden]

She's never had an orgasm at all? She might want to experiment by herself first. Once she gets to know what feels best for her, she can show you how to do it the way she likes.

[TheCrowing]

Even though her legs are twitching, her clit may get more sensitive as she gets closer. Personally, even when my partner 'powers through' the fact that my legs twitch, I can only handle specific types of contact there. It's sometimes gets uncomfortable depending on how my partner is doing whatever he/she is doing. Ask her about that. It's important to rule out different things.

[Disneygirl94]

haha im the exact same way...i get scared when it gets to powerful because idk whats going to happen so i stop him haha.