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How to make it last longer - December 13th 2019, 08:50 PM

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Hey all.

So two years ago I dated this person. I was their first. For it being their first few times in bed they were actually pretty satisfying, but the sex only lasted about thirty seconds. We kinda just gradually stopped seeing each other for unrelated reasons (read: depression made us isolate). Anyway, fast forward to now and they contact me. We start talking and they want to try again. The thing is, they still haven't been with anyone other than me and are afraid they'll only last a short time again if we have sex.

I don't have a penis so I don't really know any tips for making this person last longer. I'd like the sex to be longer if possible, but I want to encourage this person and not make them feel pressure to perform.

So anyone, especially people with penises, how can you make yourself delay orgasm?
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Re: How to make it last longer - December 18th 2019, 09:42 PM

No penis here, but you haven't gotten a reply.

Excuse the 'no shit' suggestion I'm about to make, but perhaps fore play? Eh, no other idea. Sorry.

Also, I want to add that quick and short orgasms could be an underlying issue, not necessarily the sex itself.
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Re: How to make it last longer - December 18th 2019, 10:09 PM

I mean...

Practice and strong will, mostly. You can try stopping now and then to let him "cool down" a bit, but it'll only get you so far.


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Re: How to make it last longer - December 24th 2019, 01:54 AM

Practice makes perfect. Its the only way to learn. He has to try to learn to control it though
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Re: How to make it last longer - January 12th 2020, 06:51 AM

I think everything is individual here
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Re: How to make it last longer - September 9th 2020, 06:43 PM

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Hey all.

So two years ago I dated this person. I was their first. For it being their first few times in bed they were actually pretty satisfying, but the sex only lasted about thirty seconds. We kinda just gradually stopped seeing each other for unrelated reasons (read: depression made us isolate). Anyway, fast forward to now and they contact me. We start talking and they want to try again. The thing is, they still haven't been with anyone other than me and are afraid they'll only last a short time again if we have sex.

I don't have a penis so I don't really know any tips for making this person last longer. I'd like the sex to be longer if possible, but I want to encourage this person and not make them feel pressure to perform.

So anyone, especially people with penises, how can you make yourself delay orgasm?
I don't have a penis but I think that he can through his out from your vagina when he feels that the end is coming
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