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View Poll Results: Would you like there to be a max age?
Yes 1 10.00%
No 9 90.00%
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Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 08:32 PM

I was going to post this as a suggestion, but I wanted to see what everyone else thought about this and their opinions. The poll is anonymous.

I honestly think there should be a max age for the sex and puberty like around 21. At that age, you shouldn't 'need' a forum anymore to ask questions about it. Leave like the LGBT/Preggo forums for all ages, but the sex ones i think should be closed after you turn 21...

Yeah I know older people may have more insight. But it's a little weird to get advice from someone who's like 30 or 35 when you're only like 15 or 16 isn't it?
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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 08:36 PM

Why? Surely people over 21 are some of the most qualified people to give such advice?

Also, this should be in suggestions..


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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 08:38 PM

I dont know. It might be a bit wierd for some people, but I think they would know more about relationships and a LOT more about sex than teenagers that are new to it.
But I can see how you might find it wierd. If it bothers you pretend they're 15 or something XP



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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 08:49 PM

Well, then that means Jaguar and other people can't post. That's not fair. I think that older people have a better chance of giving better advice than the younger ones.


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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 08:53 PM

No.
Some of the best advice I have seen around the Sex and Puberty is from CanadaCraig who is 46.

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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 09:04 PM

I gusse it can sound creepy on how old they are, but its not like they know u in person and are asking u ur bra size..just giving advice u ask..and even then they don't go into dectials..and i'd rather have advice from sombdoy thats "been their , done that, got the tshirt, wore it out"
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Re: Max age for sex and puberty - July 31st 2009, 09:06 PM

Hi TJ,

I do think that this would be best posted as a suggestion if you feel as though it would be a good idea. Posting this as a suggested would also let you see how many people voted yes or no to implementing your suggestion which would be the equivalent of the poll that you've posted here.

I think I'll close this now and suggest that you do post this as a suggestion instead of a topic, as it seems that you're quite keen on the idea.

To give my opinion though, I believe that with age comes experience - especially with puberty/sexual issues, a twenty-one year old will have gone through puberty and will have more experience and advice than a 13 year old who has not had the experience, for example.

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