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In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 02:20 PM

Would it matter to females if I'm a virgin when I go to college? because when I go i just realized that I'll be in sophmore and junior classes with ap credits clep and stuff. and I thought it was pretty intimidating. will it matter to older girls if i havent had sex yet as a 17 yr old guy
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 03:26 PM

Personally, it wouldnt matter to me.
If a girl likes and respects you for who you are then she wont mind about the fact that you are a virgin.
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 05:08 PM

Personally, being a virgin as a 17 year old college student wouldn't matter to me. I took an 18 year old's virginity and it was special to me (he's still the person I'm sleeping with). Like Mia said, if a girl likes you for who you are, virginity or not will be the last thing on her mind.
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 05:30 PM

It depends on the girl, but personally, if they care that you're a virgin, they won't be worth your time anyway.

To me, it wouldn't be a big deal though I prefer a guy with more experience than myself, or equal amount of experience. But, virginity isn't a deal breaker. If a girl cares about you, your virginity won't matter to them.











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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 10:55 PM

Honestly, lots of girls find it hot. Maybe not so much now as I'm twenty one, but I started seeing my boyfriend just under two years ago and thought it was a huge turn on that he hadn't had sex yet at nineteen, and felt really privileged to be his first. Plus, seventeen is really not that old to be a virgin. (My baby brother is seventeen!!) I don't think it'll be a big deal at all (:


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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 2nd 2012, 11:00 PM

It doesn't matter.
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 3rd 2012, 08:28 AM

It may seem like all girls will care, but honestly most of us don't. And it won't be a dealbreaker if the girl is worth it.


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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 4th 2012, 01:09 AM

it wouldn't matter to me if a guy was a virgin or not....I don't think I ever asked my partner if he was or not when I met him but because he was alot older than me me I figured he wouldn't be...plus he has a daughter but I wasn't aware of that at time
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 7th 2012, 11:29 PM

It all matters on the girl itself, but I'm a virgin myself and it sucks.
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Re: In college would it matter if I'm still a virgin - January 8th 2012, 05:19 AM

Personally, I think most girls won't care. I know a lot of girls who haven't dated, let alone had sex before college. There's going to be a ton of girls who aren't experienced too. Either they don't care or they actually glad you are because it puts less pressure on them with sex. Girls get insecure on how well they do too, not just guys.

The few girls who do care don't matter. There should be plenty of girls in college you won't care/are happy you are. So no worries, take your time and do it when you feel comfortable.




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