Questions for the opposite sex

[Double X]

Originally Posted by Noobcake

Sometimes I seriously wonder why *most* guys can't think with their heads. The one with the brain in it. >.>
Any of you have an explanation for that?

This quality is not exclusve to men and is found in *most* women as well

[I-Love-him]

Originally Posted by TigerTank77

SO lets say you meet a guy. You both immediately hit it off. Personalities are an extreme match, both extremely attracted to each other

But he lives 3 hours away. He has a car, and you will soon.

Would you enter a relationship with him?

hmm, not 3 hours away no. my boyfriend lives 1 hour away, he has a car.it works for us both but 3 hours away is just too much to deal with i think. i guess it could work for some people but not for me, 1 hour away is enough, i mean imagine if there was an emergency or something, 3 hours to get to eachother isn't enough. i'd have to let him go. i mean i'd chance it and see how it goes but i doubt it would work out.

[Potato]

For guys: So what does it mean when a guy (who flirts a lot with all girls - just for fun) goes from: flirting with you - stops flirting with you and starts talking "for real" with you and hugs you whenever he meets you - and then stops completely, only comes over you to ask "practical" questions, like "Do you know if John is in town?" or "Have you seen Jessica?" but always says it in a "giggling" kinda way ?

(Did that make any sense?)

[Stratus]

It sounds like this guy needs some growing up to do. He also sounds like a bit of a manwhore.. He obviously doesn't know what he wants in his life yet.
So ignore him, and if he really likes you then he will go after you!

Question for the ladies..
There is this girl that I really really like.. I asked her to prom last week and she said yes!! Pheww.. But now I am going on a date with her tonight.. Our first, soo I'm wondering if the date goes really really well. Is it wise to kiss her when the date is over, I'm not talking about making out but ya know..

I just don't want to mess this thing up.
Which I am known to doo..
Please help!!

[DeadlySin]

Hahah Colton, I love you.
But.
I don't see the problem
If it does go well you should. =)
Just a cute little kiss.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Hope the date goes well!

You have my luck. =P

Question to the guys:
Why do some of you seem so intranced by the sight of bigger boobs? O_o

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by DeadlySin

Hahah Colton, I love you.
But.
I don't see the problem
If it does go well you should. =)
Just a cute little kiss.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Hope the date goes well!

You have my luck. =P

Question to the guys:
Why do some of you seem so intranced by the sight of bigger boobs? O_o

I'm not sure any guy can answer that one. The best answer I can give, and possibly the only one is: BOOBS.

[TheLittleNinja]

Originally Posted by Stratus

It sounds like this guy needs some growing up to do. He also sounds like a bit of a manwhore.. He obviously doesn't know what he wants in his life yet.
So ignore him, and if he really likes you then he will go after you!

Question for the ladies..
There is this girl that I really really like.. I asked her to prom last week and she said yes!! Pheww.. But now I am going on a date with her tonight.. Our first, soo I'm wondering if the date goes really really well. Is it wise to kiss her when the date is over, I'm not talking about making out but ya know..

I just don't want to mess this thing up.
Which I am known to doo..
Please help!!

I know it's too late now, but if she seemed happy then yeah - why not? Hey, even a cheek kiss can mean something Let us know how it went

[KiD CuDi]

Originally Posted by DeadlySin

Hahah Colton, I love you.
But.
I don't see the problem
If it does go well you should. =)
Just a cute little kiss.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Hope the date goes well!

You have my luck. =P

Question to the guys:
Why do some of you seem so intranced by the sight of bigger boobs? O_o

I don't know why most of us prefer bigger boobs it's just something guys naturally find very sexy I mean I know I do.


Question to the girls: what signals do you send to let a guy know that you like him indirectly and directly

[Lu82]

Yung bzy: i, for instance, like to smile and definitely make eye contact with him and tease him hehehe.




For boys: why do you ask a girl out but then you dont set up a day for it?
That drives me insane, if you dont want to date her then why ask?

oh and another: why is it so hard for you to show your emotions?

[Double X]

Originally Posted by Lu82

oh and another: why is it so hard for you to show your emotions?

The first two questions don't apply to me, but for the last:

Every girl I have been with hated when I got emotional. Girls like me more when I have independence, show confidence, etc., and being emotional contradicts that.

Furthermore, it's been ingrained in guy's heads since birth, like girls who are obsessed with being thin. Socially, it is our assigned gender role. It's rather depressing, but I have gotten used to it

cheers

[Pour the Teapot]

if you go to the movies alone with a guy is it automatically a date? or is the guy still convinced you're just "hanging out"?

[don'tstopbelievin]

Originally Posted by Yung bzy

Question to the girls: what signals do you send to let a guy know that you like him indirectly and directly

I think most girls like to believe they play hard to get but this is rarely the case. Generally if I like a guy then I want him to give me attention. So I'll start conversations with him online, or I'll text him. But there's always a reason behind it. If I like someone I go to class with for example I'd start with "hiya! have you done the work for this assignment?" and think up a fake question. But most girls retain the 'hard to get' bit by ignoring the guy after a while or taking ages to reply, or acting like they're only talking to them because they need to ask a question or a favour. I guess what I'm saying is that if you seem to always find yourself talking to a girl and it always seems to be her that instigates it but then her interest in you starts to lessen during the conversation, she probably likes you.

Also the whole "be mean to the person you like" thing is totally true to me. I don't do it directly. It's totally a habit that I can't break. It's kind of my way of saying "we're not friends, you are NOT putting me in the friendship zone, I'm happy to joke with you but our relationship is purely superficial unless you show some sort of romantic interest in me".

[Katara]

Originally Posted by Lu82

For boys: why do you ask a girl out but then you dont set up a day for it?
That drives me insane, if you dont want to date her then why ask?

oh and another: why is it so hard for you to show your emotions?

1. I have always had days in mind when i've asked girls out, if i didn't then I would be expecting her to come up with something, for one thing why the hell do i always have to be the one to ask

2. Because that's what women damn well expect! if i was to lay my emotions down on a girl I liked she would run a mile!

And the boobs thing is a construct we've evolved, big boobs = healthy individual nothing more complex than that

[sally123]

Originally Posted by MrsCVBerg

Sex is important, but certainly not on the top of my list of important things. To be honest, it's probably not even near the top. I feel like as long as I'm in a relationship with someone that I really care about, that's what matters. As long as we can talk to each other, have a good time with each other, and trust one another, that's what matters. But, hey, if the sex is good, that's alright too. :]


And, I know I'm not a guy, but I'm going to give my input anyway.


I think that it really depends on the guy. Some guys are about the sex and do whatever it takes to "get their numbers up". However, that's not always the case. Sometimes things just happen when you're drunk. Other times, you're just not thinking straight and you do things that you'll later regret. OR there are also the times when something is going on in your relationship and you confide in someone about it and one thing leads to another. There are many, many reasons why someone would cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend. That's not to say that any of the reasons are good enough to justify the cheating, though. No matter how you look at it, cheating is wrong. It can really hurt someone.

Edit- Woops! Forgot my question! For the guys: Describe your dream girl. From personality to beliefs to appearance.

It's not the be all and end all of any relationship. At this age, when hormones are starting to get crazy, it is advisable to stay in tune with your self first. Get to know yourself, mingle with friends or with singles just like you.

Why am I saying this, if you're not happy with your own yourself and how you react to people, you can never be happy in a relationship.

[PunkRoxS9]

1. Why do men change their mind about whether they like you? One day they're all over you and the next "give me some space", the next they're kissing you again.

2. Why do boys expect girls to be perfect???

[Rhop101]

Originally Posted by PunkRoxS9

1. Why do men change their mind about whether they like you? One day they're all over you and the next "give me some space", the next they're kissing you again.

2. Why do boys expect girls to be perfect???

1. To be honest this boy sounds like he's using you. He knows you'll be there waiting for him if he wants you, but he's not committed. If I did this with my gf she would get mad at me for ignoring her lol.

2. They don't at least I don't. No one is perfect. It depends what kind of guy you are, but I love my gf because she acts natural, she doesn't smell like perfume and use makeup. She has pimples and things sometimes like I do. We are no different. Though I won't discredit the fact us guys have fantasies about how girls should look, so I'm sure he just wants to fulfill his fantasies with you, which goes back to the fact he might be using you. You shouldn't have to change who you are for him.

Have you talked to him about this?

[John 6:29]

Originally Posted by PunkRoxS9

1. Why do men change their mind about whether they like you? One day they're all over you and the next "give me some space", the next they're kissing you again.

I know with me I usually grow attached and then I'll want some space simply to not force any emotions into the relationship. In a sense, keeping it slow. Also, I get fairly irritated with people when I am around them (usually girls) too much so I want distance.

Originally Posted by PunkRoxS9

2. Why do boys expect girls to be perfect???

The same reason girls expect guys be everything a girl wants emotionally, Media. We're both equally guilty of expecting too much from people.

[flippinmayonnaise]

Question for the guys: Would you be comfortable having only one sexual partner in your lifetime?

[Rainbow Dash]

If a male friend tells you "you were the prettiest girl there" (we went to a party) when drunk does that mean anything? We've been friends for years and nothing has happened at all between us :/ It's just when he gets drunk he says things like that which make me think.

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by Conspiracy.

If a male friend tells you "you were the prettiest girl there" (we went to a party) when drunk does that mean anything? We've been friends for years and nothing has happened at all between us :/ It's just when he gets drunk he says things like that which make me think.

Could mean nothing, people say stupid things they don't mean when they're drunk.
Then again, being drunk makes you more confident. So he could really have feelings for you.

I think it's best consider it no.1, that way you can wait and see what happens.

[TheNumber42]

Originally Posted by flippinmayonnaise

Question for the guys: Would you be comfortable having only one sexual partner in your lifetime?

Yes, I would be. In fact, that's exactly what I plan to do.

[Rhop101]

Originally Posted by flippinmayonnaise

Question for the guys: Would you be comfortable having only one sexual partner in your lifetime?

I would

[John 6:29]

For Girls: Why do you generally get so pushy when a relationship get serious?

[Maloo]

Originally Posted by mewithoutYou

For Girls: Why do you generally get so pushy when a relationship get serious?

My relationship is serious, and I'm not pushy at all. So maybe someone who is will respond and be more helpful to you

[John 6:29]

Originally Posted by Myss

My relationship is serious, and I'm not pushy at all. So maybe someone who is will respond and be more helpful to you

yes, not all.. just most. Or at least all the girls I end up liking because they're all generally the same personality bahaha so maybe I'm just what's wrong ;P

[flippinmayonnaise]

Originally Posted by mewithoutYou

For Girls: Why do you generally get so pushy when a relationship get serious?

We're emotionally invested, and afraid you're going to hurt us. Try to give a girl a break

[Pelios]

For guys:
You go to a party meet a girl talk, and find out you have a lot of things in common, you add her on facebook and msn and never talk to her unless she talks to you first? After all you were the one who found her in facebook and msn? =/
Why do you do this?

[Rainbow Dash]

Originally Posted by mewithoutYou

For Girls: Why do you generally get so pushy when a relationship get serious?

I never get pushy in serious relationships but my sister is. I think it's because people are scared to lose the other person so they try and keep control. With control they'll feel like they won't break up or whatever as they're in control. Obviously that doesn't always happen but that's kind of the way I've perceived it.

[John 6:29]

Originally Posted by mexico

For guys:
You go to a party meet a girl talk, and find out you have a lot of things in common, you add her on facebook and msn and never talk to her unless she talks to you first? After all you were the one who found her in facebook and msn? =/
Why do you do this?

I would do it to see if the girl is interested in me. Girls that are passive, I generally get the feeling they're not interested, though sometimes it's just because they want to be chased after as well. But for me I sit back sometimes to see if THEY want ME so that I feel more comfortable allowing my feelings develop for them. However, I'm VERY skeptical and analytical (with everything) and so I do a lot of things awkwardly.

[sweety]

Guys: what signs does a girl need to look out for when she thinks a guy maybe using her?

[Firesong3]

For guys: What does an attractive voice sound like? Deep or high? With an accent?

[DanielR]

Guys: what signs does a girl need to look out for when she thinks a guy maybe using her?

An honest answer: When all he wants you for is sex. Once he gets it, he drops you until he wants you again.

For guys: What does an attractive voice sound like? Deep or high? With an accent?

An attractive voice is any voice pleasing to an individuals ear. Accents are attractive, but even just being normal, using your natural tone can be attractive.

[c1624]

Originally Posted by OohLaLa

Oooh My question for everybody...

What is the most important apsect of your relationship (if you're in one) ?

I think the most important aspect in a relationship is just being yourself, so many people will tell you this and it starts to sound chessy. But it is true.

Another aspect would be, practice. Not every relationship will result in love. But with most relationships you'll learn to trust a little more, to care a little more, and to be more open minded. Some relationships are basicallly practice.

Originally Posted by guyofpain

Females: Why does it seem you always have to win? lol.

We don't always have to win. But sometimes during a fight you have to cave in and let the other person win. And I agree, who doesn't like to win??

[Allons-y!]

Guys: What is so fun about cracking a girl's knuckles? Two guys have done this to me now...I tell them that I never crack my knuckles and I don't really even know how, and they automatically go "Give me your hand." EVEN WHEN I SAY IT HURTS AND I DON'T LIKE IT. What is the appeal here? xD

[-A-]

Originally Posted by Allons-y!

Guys: What is so fun about cracking a girl's knuckles? Two guys have done this to me now...I tell them that I never crack my knuckles and I don't really even know how, and they automatically go "Give me your hand." EVEN WHEN I SAY IT HURTS AND I DON'T LIKE IT. What is the appeal here? xD

Yeah um... I've never attentionaly gone a crack a girls knuckles before...
Maybe somehow in there mind they think that there flirting or something.... idk

[xJustMex]

For guys: What is the obsession with rough, kinky sex? lol every guy i have met has some weird fantasies and absolutely has to be in charge..the guy im with now is the total opposite, and complains when i want sex too much..
- is this just some weird guy thing or what? any normal guys out there? lol

[Brandon]

Originally Posted by xJustMex

For guys: What is the obsession with rough, kinky sex? lol every guy i have met has some weird fantasies and absolutely has to be in charge..the guy im with now is the total opposite, and complains when i want sex too much..
- is this just some weird guy thing or what? any normal guys out there? lol

When guys are around women, they can't be rough because they know that they're naturally stronger and could potentially hurt them if they play around to much. My sister punches me all the time, but I punch back softer than she punches because I don't wanna hurt her. Having rough kinky sex is a way to break the normal routine. In rough kinky sex, it's a good stress release to be aggressive and it's enjoyable because...sex is sex, and for two...you don't have to worry about hurting her when she enjoys it, possibly as much as you do. But some guys like being in charge because the like to be the dominant. Guys like knowing that they girl they have is theirs...all theirs. Muhahah! It's pretty normal though. All guys like different things cause, really, we're all unique

[savealife723]

Originally Posted by mewithoutYou

For Girls: Why do you generally get so pushy when a relationship get serious?

It's definitely not all girls, only some. And I think that it's out of fear that you're going to hurt them, so they try to control you. Although I'm not quite sure. I'll ask my sister. She's just like that..

[Leo]

Originally Posted by Care-o-Bear

Guys:
How often do you actually look at girls boobs when you're talking to them?

Personally, I think you probably do that less than lots of us think you are. But at the same time, I was totally clueless that last year, before I really talked to him, my current bf would sometimes stare at my boobs.

I find myself doing this without thinking with girls I either 1. Don't know, 2. usually have no intention of seeing again. When I realize I usually look away. If im talking to a girl I like im usually looking at her eyes, It's fun to make girls blush a little and looking in their eyes will pretty much tell you how close you are to doing so

[Leo]

Originally Posted by Christinaa317o8

Guys;

What is the most pleasurable thing your girlfriend could do for you?
Sexually and not sexually. =p

Sexually would be a bit graphic so skipping that lol, um when my ex and I were still together she would some times come over to wake me up and do so by sitting on my chest and letting her hair fall over my face, (loved the smell of her shampoo) followed by kissing me until I couldn't see straight. good times.