Hi cometdancer, welcome to teenhelp.org, my name is Mia.
I'm one of the buddies on the site, we're here to help you find your way. We're easily identifiable by our lime green usernames so do give us a shout if you need anything.
There are lots of ways of receiving support and advice on teenhelp this link
http://www.teenhelp.org/getadvice/ explains those features so you can work out whats best for you. If you like to meet new people, I suggest you visit our chatroom, its a great place.
I hope to see you around soon
Take care
Mia