Hi, I recently found out that my daughter has Selective Eating Disorder. There is a lot of information out there. I put together this site yesterday
www.selectiveeatingdisorder.info , its basically a ton of links to many resources and a very thorough depiction of what its like. My daughter has this, although they still call it Eating Disorder, Not otherwise specified. You can read it on the site under Parent's stories. I do believe its genetic as i have this as well, although not to the extent my teenager does. Its not just not wanting to eat certian foods, its a physical repulstion coupled with massive anxiety. I understand what you are going through I just don't know how to help. That's what I am trolling the blogs looking for. Now that we know what it is, what can we do? Have you found anything to help you be able to try a new food, be less anxious about food or not gag at the smell or taste of a new food?