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Forum: Self Harm February 11th 2013, 04:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,033
Posted By calgary01
Re: I just started cutting

You're really not alone, there are so many who struggle with it at some level. Definitely try and stop beforeit gets worse, also it has really helped me to have someone that you know you can count on...
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 1st 2012, 03:57 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering (SH): Should I just give up?
Views: 725
Posted By calgary01
Re: Should I just give up?

I'm no help to you, but I have to say I can identify exactly with you. Talking to people doesn't help even if they are supportive and nonjudgmental, and although the depression gets better for a bit...
Forum: Self Harm August 11th 2011, 04:59 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 543
Posted By calgary01
Re: Unsure

Addictions like self harm start little, just like all addictions. It'll get worse if you don't find ways to cope....talk to someone. hugs<3
Forum: Self Harm August 11th 2011, 04:57 AM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): I messed up
Views: 643
Posted By calgary01
Re: I messed up

Try to trust someone. If not your parents/family, then maybe your therapist. And if she/he has to tell your parents (i know that feeling), then someone else. like an adult that you respect. or a...
Forum: Self Harm August 11th 2011, 04:55 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): My friend saw my scars
Views: 2,093
Posted By calgary01
Re: My friend saw my scars

Hopefully she'll help you. If not, she's not a good friend. Don't be scared. Stay strong, and PLEASE don't cut again....hugs:)
Forum: Self Harm June 28th 2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 680
Posted By calgary01
Re: cutting

This made total sense to me, and was actually really really wonderful and impressive. You're good at writing, keep it up! It can also be a really useful distraction when you get urges to sh.
Forum: Self Harm June 28th 2011, 01:02 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 511
Posted By calgary01
Re: getting worse "/

Distractions don't really work all that well for me either. I'd definitely say from my own experience what's helped me the most, is being able to talk to a mature person about it. Having one trusted...
Forum: Self Harm June 28th 2011, 12:59 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,101
Posted By calgary01
Re: Being an ex self-harmer with scars.

About the Italy thing.....my opinion would be that if she asks, you're best off just telling her straight up. Rather than lying and probably having her deduct the real answer anyways....hopefully,...
Forum: Self Harm June 26th 2011, 04:39 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 883
Posted By calgary01
Re: healing scars ?

Prolly just an allergic reaction, yeah...
Forum: Self Harm June 25th 2011, 10:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,012
Posted By calgary01
Re: i hurt myself

Please talk to us, we're here for you! And YOU ARE LOVED. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. YOU ARE WORTH SOO MUCH!! <3
Forum: Self Harm June 23rd 2011, 06:43 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,847
Posted By calgary01
Forum: Self Harm June 23rd 2011, 06:41 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,357
Posted By calgary01
Re: Tattoo as an incentive to stop SH?

Yeah i don't really even see how that would help...
Forum: Self Harm June 20th 2011, 09:57 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,264
Posted By calgary01
Re: Just told my Best friend...Mistake?

she might just not know how to react....give her time..
Forum: Self Harm June 20th 2011, 09:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 600
Posted By calgary01
Re: Am I a horrible person?

definitely doesn't make you a horrible person, it's a natural reaction. just not a healthy one and one you should try your hardest to avoid...you can do it!
Forum: Self Harm June 17th 2011, 02:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,091
Posted By calgary01
Re: stop the shakes...

oh my gosh!! that TOTALLY happens to me too....like if i even see razors or if i see/hear any reference to cutting....my body shakes. like last week i was watching a harry potter movie with friends...
Forum: Self Harm June 17th 2011, 02:47 AM
Replies: 6
Triggering (SH): worthless
Views: 732
Posted By calgary01
Re: worthless

Thanks for that Shana!!! I really hope you are able to tell someone that you can trust soon....because it may not be easy but it is pretty much the best thing you can do for yourself. love and hugs!...
Forum: Self Harm June 13th 2011, 07:08 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,172
Posted By calgary01
Re: cutting and binging

exercise! get out and run, get out of the house and be with people. best way to stay away from both things..
Forum: Self Harm June 13th 2011, 07:07 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,280
Posted By calgary01
Re: I need Help, please!

it does not make you weak. You are still who you are. that's something that somebody i trust told me, and when you realize that it helps alot. i'm right now working on trying to recover from self...
Forum: Self Harm June 13th 2011, 07:04 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 585
Posted By calgary01
Re: ah

how is it possible to make people cut themselves? ...........that's not possible. maybe you were part of the reason, or maybe you triggered something for them, but ultimately it is their choice....
Forum: Self Harm June 9th 2011, 12:55 AM
Replies: 6
Triggering (SH): worthless
Views: 732
Posted By calgary01
Unhappy worthless

so right off the bat, i just need to vent i guess....
basically, it was about 5 weeks ago that i decided to tell somebody that i cut because it was getting to be a scary addiction and i wanted help....
Forum: Self Harm June 5th 2011, 02:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 921
Posted By calgary01
Re: wrote this poem about cutting

thanks guys....sorry about the trigger warning, i'm kinda new to the site and i don't know how to do it...?
Forum: Self Harm June 4th 2011, 05:50 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,060
Posted By calgary01
Re: I can't escape the scars

You don't have anything to prove to them. You're sooo right. Be strong....stay strong <3
Forum: Self Harm May 29th 2011, 02:25 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 921
Posted By calgary01
wrote this poem about cutting

Last time i got the urge to cut I wrote this poem about it...what do you guys think? comment...does it relate at all to what any of the rest of you who have a sh history have felt like? I wanna know...
Forum: Self Harm April 18th 2011, 06:18 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): wanna cut
Views: 712
Posted By calgary01
Re: wanna cut

You can do this! You are soo important and worth soo much. and you've already gone so long SH free. i believe in you.....you can do it! <3 hugs and love!
Forum: Self Harm April 17th 2011, 04:37 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 495
Posted By calgary01
How do I tell?

sooo i decided to tell an adult about my cutting. my youth pastor is the only adult i trust with anything and everything and he always understands so i decided to tell him. when i saw him next though...
Forum: Depression and Suicide April 14th 2011, 07:11 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 681
Posted By calgary01
I don't know what this feeling is...?

it's not like i want to really go shoot myself in the head and kill myself. i don't really want to....but i really wouldnt care if I died...ya know? I've somehow lost focus in school work and work,...
Forum: Mental Health April 14th 2011, 04:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 930
Posted By calgary01
Re: Something wrong in my head.

maybe think about when it happens. is it in a certain place or at a certain time? with certain people? that is kinda scary :/ maybe try filling your head with positive thoughts, or calling a trusted...
Forum: Depression and Suicide April 14th 2011, 04:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 621
Posted By calgary01
Re: I don't want this

Keep trying to be positive. Right now it might seem like things won't ever get better.....but one day they will. Just don't give up :)
Forum: Arrivals and Departures April 14th 2011, 01:13 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 424
Posted By calgary01
Re: new to TH

Thanks guys! You all seem so nice and supportive :) Ummmmm....why do I keep seeing people saying "PM me"? What is PM? Hahahaha sorry. i just don't know where anything is on this website :P
Forum: Substance Use April 14th 2011, 01:12 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 10,835
Posted By calgary01
How will smoking weed affect me?

I've never done it. I want to, my friend's told me it's not that bad. I wanna know.....what it will do to me, is it addicting, what will change as far as my physical condition and my emotional...
Forum: Arrivals and Departures April 13th 2011, 06:04 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 424
Posted By calgary01
new to TH

Hey everybody, my name is Blossom, I'm a 16 yr old who lives in Canada. I just joined this thing today.....:)
Forum: Self Harm April 13th 2011, 04:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,445
Posted By calgary01
Is it true that people who cut do it only for attention?

Or is it even possible to cut just for attention? I just cut for the first time. i dont even know why. but i dont think i did it for attention. i mean i'd die if anybody saw. :/ i'm confused...
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