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Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:53 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Wow, England is interesting! Any idea where in London? I don't want to automatically assume London.

lol can you tell I envy those who get to go to cool countries? :p

Mmm, I've noticed houses...
Forum: Self Expression August 28th 2009, 08:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 471
Posted By dancer
Re: a new definition to light in the sky.

Hey Kayla,

this is really creative, and really pretty! Keep up the writing :)
Forum: Self Expression August 28th 2009, 08:41 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: The Voice
Views: 544
Posted By dancer
Re: The Voice

Wow, this is a really powerful poem.

Wow.
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:38 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Yeep - I like old people, but I don't know how I'd feel about taking a whole painting class with them... You could always pick back up again, though, or look at other options. By the way, it's really...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:29 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Aah. Yeah, I had some relatives like that... I only met them once...

Would staying with a friend or talking to your mom about schooling be an option? Or are there any sort of classes/clubs - like...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:23 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Okay, then scratch the camp idea.

Could you use getting to know your relatives better as an excuse to visit them? Or are there any friends you could look into visiting? And is there any way you...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:17 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

I'll let you know as soon as my teleportation machine is up and running :hug:

In the meantime, we'll figure out someway for you to maybe not be so "stuck" while you're where you are.

Any sort...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:10 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

I should teleport you here :p

But really, I promise, that ridiculous standard of beauty (sorry, blond hair, blue eyed people, no offense) isn't a standard everywhere. And physical appearance isn't...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 08:06 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Well, people are allowed to be loud, obnoxious, and annoying sometimes. A lot of people do it all the time without any qualms. Just points out how good of a person you really are that you might be...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:59 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering (Suicide): Its my fault
Views: 717
Posted By dancer
Re: Its my fault

Hi Mystery,

your friend's wrong. It was his own feelings, his own thought path, his own decisions. It's not your fault. Not at all. You were trying to help him, and he should be grateful. A late...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:56 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

50 years? Probably not. Most likely much sooner.

Have you tried talking to someone like a doctor or counselor? That might help the healing point come sooner.
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:55 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Then your mother needs her brain checked.

You don't seem loud, obnoxious, or annoying at all. Normally those tones come through in people's writing, and yours definitely doesn't sound that way.
...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:50 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

No way. They get their own space. There's no reassigning those.

And you're already here. You already matter.

You're already cared about.
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:49 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): this is it
Views: 474
Posted By dancer
Re: this is it

Actually, the people in hospitals know how to handle it and help people when they "lose it." If you do end up having to go, just take a deep breath and realize that the people there are just trying...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:47 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Honey, please don't hurt yourself!

I'm sorry that things keep getting worse. It sucks. It's not fair.

But it's not a reason to kill yourself.

It hurts to hurt. And you shouldn't ever hurt....
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:41 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): this is it
Views: 474
Posted By dancer
Re: this is it

I know that going to the hospital is a scary thought - but if you're going to your doctor for help, he might see that you maybe don't need to. And even if you do go, it will be okay. The hospital is...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:39 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

I don't think you're expected to know the answer to why you were born by now. That's a really big question. While people in general are still asking "what's the meaning of life," I think it's okay if...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:34 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): this is it
Views: 474
Posted By dancer
Re: this is it

It's good that you realize that you should get help before someone gets hurt, yourself or someone else.

Try talking to your mom later to let her know that you need to talk to your doctor as soon...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:31 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 410
Posted By dancer
Re: !!!!

Hi Shanna,

take a deep breath. Please don't hurt yourself - it sounds like you're going through a lot right now, and you get to be good to yourself. Not just add more stress.

It's really good...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:28 AM
Replies: 34
Triggering (Suicide): I've got the knife in hand....
Views: 932
Posted By dancer
Re: I've got the knife in hand....

Take a deep breath, hun.

You don't have to do anything.

And no good byes allowed.

I know that things can feel freaking impossible to deal with sometimes, but I promise, they can be dealt...
Forum: Self Expression August 28th 2009, 07:23 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 554
Posted By dancer
Re: Just a short one

Ah! I like this one a lot :)

And yes, definitely send it to Avatar!
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): this is it
Views: 474
Posted By dancer
Re: this is it

DK,

*hugs*

other people, especially doctors, know that good people go through bad things - whether it's an experience, things they're thinking, something they've done. But that doesn't make...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:19 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 646
Posted By dancer
Re: i am

Ella,

honey, please don't give up! You're cared about so much - your family, your friends, us, me. I understand not wanting to talk - there have been times when I've gotten really, really quiet,...
Forum: Self Harm August 28th 2009, 07:11 AM
Replies: 18,832
Views: 457,353
Posted By dancer
Re: Self harm free!

Six weeks, one day :)

Good job everyone!!!
Forum: Self Harm August 28th 2009, 07:09 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 471
Posted By dancer
Re: What do i do???

Hi Elliott,

a month and fifteen days is amaaaazing! I'm so proud of you for making it that long!

Sometimes, I phrase things like "I know I'm going to slip up," too, but I think it can be...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 07:01 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): this is it
Views: 474
Posted By dancer
Re: this is it

DK,

take a deep breath. Suicide is not the only way out. I promise. Even when we run out of ideas, it's not that there aren't any more ideas to try - it's just that we're not thinking of them. But...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 06:47 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering (Suicide): MY FRIEND NEEDS HELP
Views: 583
Posted By dancer
Re: MY FRIEND NEEDS HELP

Hey there,

maybe try reminding her that no matter what, she was born mattering and that's not going to change, regardless of how anyone has treated her. Her dignity is nonnegtionable, and she...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 06:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 531
Posted By dancer
Re: I'm A Waste

Hey there,

life isn't a measure of our accomplishments. Those are just supplementary. The tally of our mistakes or successes doesn't matter - they'll always fall way short of any accurate measure...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 06:27 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): I don't know
Views: 539
Posted By dancer
Re: I don't know

Hi Siera,

:hug: honey, I'm sorry that things are so rough for you. But please don't give up - I understand what it's like to feel like you've built yourself into a mask for other people, and that...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 05:23 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 646
Posted By dancer
Re: i am

Hi Ella,

because while you're definitely right in that you shouldn't have to keep feeling down, there are always other ways to deal with it besides suicide. You can put your misery out without...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 05:15 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 364
Posted By dancer
Re: Lost hope.

Hey there,

please don't give up. I'm sorry that you're feeling so alone right now - but TH is a great place to talk about what's going on, and to have people listen. And care. Really, genuinely...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 28th 2009, 05:10 AM
Replies: 3
Triggering (Suicide): seriously going to kill myself
Views: 518
Posted By dancer
Re: seriously going to kill myself

Hi Josh,

*hugs closely*

Please don't give up! I'm so sorry that you're hurting so much right now - have been hurting so much, recently. But Josh, I promise - even when things are black with...
Forum: Self Harm August 27th 2009, 06:49 AM
Replies: 18,832
Views: 457,353
Posted By dancer
Re: Self harm free!

six weeks!!! :)
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 06:39 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 463
Posted By dancer
Re: Tired of living

Hi Vera,

no, that makes sense. I hope that getting that out helped some. You're right - you should be able to do what makes you happy. And you can live to do that. Maybe try to make college your...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 05:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 531
Posted By dancer
Re: I'm A Waste

Hey there,

so, yes, I am going to tell you you're not worthless. Feeling worthless, or thinking that you're worthless, doesn't mean that you really are. People can be the epitome of "accomplished"...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 04:54 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 493
Posted By dancer
Re: can someone help me

*hugs*

I'm sorry that you had a bad day. Those suck.

But remember that one bad day doesn't mean that the next day will be a bad day, too. It could be a ridiculously awesome day.

Just a...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 04:40 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 412
Posted By dancer
Re: Why!?

Hey there,

welcome to TH. I'm really sorry that you're hurting, hun. But I'm promise, it doesn't separate you from everybody else. It's okay to not always be okay.

You don't sound pathetic at...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 04:31 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 646
Posted By dancer
Re: i am

Hi Ella,

I definitely second everything that Kayla said. No, you are definitely not worthless, or a piece of shit. And you don't have to be your dad or your brothers - you get to be you. So what...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 04:27 AM
Replies: 2
Triggering: Non-Deserving.
Views: 394
Posted By dancer
Re: Non-Deserving.

Hi LJ,

*hugs*

I'm sorry that you were going through a rough time, hun. But actually, I've been wondering how you've been doing. Nice to see you around again - though it's obviously not so nice...
Forum: Depression and Suicide August 27th 2009, 04:23 AM
Replies: 10
Triggering (Suicide): I don't know
Views: 539
Posted By dancer
Re: I don't know

Hi Siera,

complications suck, don't they? I understand how frustrating it is when you try things and they don't seem to work, or when you "could" but "can't" do something that might help for...
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