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Forum: Rape and Abuse December 13th 2015, 02:32 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 923
Posted By Dream
Need help supporting friend

I have a friend who has recently opened up to me about an incident where she was physically and sexually assaulted by multiple guys when she was 15. She says that she repressed the memory of the...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity October 25th 2015, 04:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 860
Posted By Dream
Re: Questions for Trans Teenhelpers

1) What pronoun do you prefer to be addressed by? Do you prefer a name that is different from your given name at birth?

I prefer she/they pronouns for now (I'm male-to-female). I still get male...
Forum: Current Events and Debates October 4th 2015, 05:57 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 2,371
Posted By Dream
Re: Planned Parenthood

Yes, after a bill passes the house, it goes to the senate, and then to the president. If the president vetoes the bill, congress can bypass the president with a 2/3 majority I think.

I think that...
Forum: Substance Use October 1st 2015, 08:18 AM
Replies: 455
Views: 25,758
Posted By Dream
Re: How long have you been sober?

I haven't drank alcohol since January, so about 9 months?

Quitting seems to have really helped my physical health and depression.
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity August 20th 2015, 04:11 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 685
Posted By Dream
Re: Recovering from testosterone therapy

It will stay the same in terms of pitch, and if she wants it higher, she would have to train it like trans women do; however, she should have an easier time pulling off a female voice if that is what...
Forum: Depression and Suicide June 25th 2015, 04:31 AM
Replies: 3
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Gender Discrimination
Views: 520
Posted By Dream
Re: Gender Discrimination

I'm sorry to hear that you're being subject to work discrimination based on your gender. Obviously it is illegal, and I hope that you find some recourse or a position where they don't do that to you....
Forum: Sex and Puberty May 31st 2015, 02:20 AM
Replies: 6
Female Advice Preferred: Female Masturbation Groups/Clubs
Views: 2,375
Posted By Dream
Re: Female Masturbation Groups/Clubs

I've never heard of masturbation clubs for anyone. What?

They probably exist, but I'm guessing that they're more of a group of friends type thing than a random internet meetup type thing.
Forum: Food and Recipes April 26th 2015, 05:50 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,463
Posted By Dream
Re: Last Meal

Sushi- a wide variety of nigiri, with miso soup.
Forum: General Health April 18th 2015, 07:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 771
Posted By Dream
Re: How do I get more motivation to make me want to exercise more.

Eat healthier and do what you can to sleep well. Then just try to make it a habit. Diet is the biggest component.
Forum: Depression and Suicide April 7th 2015, 01:23 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 437
Posted By Dream
I Have Failed

I always thought and hoped that things would get better. I've been depressed and suicidal since I was 11. I've tried everything: psychotherapy, seeing a psychiatrist, natural therapies, diet,...
Forum: Rape and Abuse November 17th 2014, 08:28 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (Abuse): How to help my fiancee
Views: 1,027
Posted By Dream
Re: How to help my fiancee

Seven months? That sounds pretty serious.

I think there is really only one thing to be done. Have (or try to have) an open and honest discussion with her about what she wants and needs in regard...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity October 8th 2014, 05:14 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 784
Posted By Dream
Re: Gay marriage bans.

The Supreme Court invalidated state anti-sodomy laws in 2003 in the case of Lawrence v. Texas.

Even if they are still in some old books, states no longer enforce them.
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy October 8th 2014, 05:01 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,194
Posted By Dream
Re: vampires

I'm a vampire because I'm so sparkly.

You can be one too. Get some glitter!
Forum: Mental Health October 7th 2014, 08:11 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 693
Posted By Dream
Re: Bored and apathetic about everything in my life

It sounds like anhedonia, which is common with depression and anxiety.

I'm sorry about your cat. I doubt that loosing the cat caused it, but it may have been the straw that broke the camel's...
Forum: Anxiety October 7th 2014, 08:03 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 881
Posted By Dream
Re: Accepting it.

I think that the easiest way to accept it will be to view it as normal, which it is. Anxiety and anxiety disorders are very common. Many, many people get them. I was diagnosed with generalized...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity September 20th 2014, 07:31 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 910
Posted By Dream
Re: Does motherhood cause gender dysphoria normally?

Memories of the pregnancy and giving birth could cause dysphoria, but the transman could still be a good father to the child and affirm their masculinity through doing so. It is an opportunity, in a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 12th 2014, 07:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,947
Posted By Dream
Re: Crush on a popular guy who doesn't know I exist

Come up with some bs pretext to talk to him.

It doesn't matter if someone else likes him or if he might like someone else if he is currently single. He might like you, but he might need to get to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty September 12th 2014, 07:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,301
Posted By Dream
Re: guys balls...

Yes, it is okay to touch them. Be gentle though.

Some guys do not like having them touched, and it can be uncomfortable or a huge turn off for them. Other guys find it pleasurable. You'll have to...
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 10th 2014, 10:55 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,696
Posted By Dream
Re: I think depression is stupid.

That it is a chemical imbalance is a tautology. It is rhetoric to get people to use anti-depressants.

If they're fat, then their diet is likely contributing to their depression as well. Diet is a...
Forum: Depression and Suicide September 10th 2014, 09:50 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,696
Posted By Dream
Re: I think depression is stupid.

The main cause of depression is loneliness, and loneliness is not stupid. Humans are hard-wired to be social, but our society is extremely isolating.
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 6th 2014, 03:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 640
Posted By Dream
Borderline Girlfriend?

So I think my girlfriend might be borderline, but I don't know. In any case, how she acts sometimes is really damaging to our relationship and my psyche. I need advice on how to deal with this. I'll...
Forum: Friends and Family March 17th 2014, 09:21 PM
Replies: 2
Triggering (Abuse): Mom's boyfriend
Views: 642
Posted By Dream
Re: Mom's boyfriend

Where do I begin?

Yes, an 18 year old with a 35 year old is way too big a difference. It sounds like they are just using each other and don't really love each other. He also sounds emotionally...
Forum: Current Events and Debates March 14th 2014, 04:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 716
Posted By Dream
Re: Regretting Our President.

Usually I don't think anyone deserves that much power. Voting is always a lesser of the evils situation.
Forum: Current Events and Debates March 14th 2014, 04:38 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering: NOT GUILTY.
Views: 576
Posted By Dream

I'm sure that juries rely almost exclusively on a common sense understanding of 'guilty' and 'not guilty'. And criminals have the right to claim their not guilty, and some are dumb enough to do so no...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity March 4th 2014, 12:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 556
Posted By Dream
Re: How Do I Tell Them!?!?!?

If you're only 11, then you might want to just wait for awhile before telling people. The reason being that you should take the time to get to know and be more comfortable with yourself. It will be...
Forum: General Health March 4th 2014, 12:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 616
Posted By Dream
Re: Fat loss

Your amount of belly fat depends on so many things. Stress levels, sleeping patterns, hormones (which can be influenced my medications and are largely determined by your genetic makeup), diet, and to...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 4th 2014, 12:14 PM
Replies: 13
Non-PG13: Omegle mistake
Views: 8,614
Posted By Dream
Re: Omegle mistake

Don't worry. Even if they did record you and post it, the chances of anyone ever seeing it are close to nil. There are probably literally millions of those type of videos out there.

If you were a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty February 25th 2014, 08:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,431
Posted By Dream
Re: BDSM ??

Its actually pretty common and nothing to be ashamed of. Just research it to make sure whatever you do is safe, sane, and consensual. Use a safe word, make sure you have good communication, etc.. You...
Forum: Depression and Suicide January 21st 2014, 08:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 481
Posted By Dream
Re: Depression, Doctors and Pills

The pills probably wont fix you, so I think you're in the right to not want to rely on them. I went off of antidepressants when the doc told me I'd have to take them for at least two more years to...
Forum: General Health January 16th 2014, 09:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 755
Posted By Dream
Re: fat loss diets?

Basically, diets that are low in sugars and complex carbs are more effective. Atkins is a more extreme one. There are a million of them out there. A lot of traditional diets are much healthier. I...
Forum: Depression and Suicide January 16th 2014, 04:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,545
Posted By Dream
Re: What Is It Like To Stay In A Psych Ward?

Don't go to one unless you absolutely have to. Most of them are not very good, and having been admitted to one can block you from opportunities in the future for work and such. My aunt got her...
Forum: Mental Health January 16th 2014, 03:55 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 973
Posted By Dream
Re: Hours of Sleep

I can function with only an hour of sleep, but four hours is the minimum to not feel completely horrible, and I need at least eight to be fully functional.
Forum: Addictive Behaviours January 16th 2014, 03:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,451
Posted By Dream
Re: I got caught selling "tobacco" to a minor

You really need to look up the laws on punishments for selling tobacco to minors in your state or where you live. Depending on the state, it could range from a $100 fine to $1000 fine and having your...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 16th 2014, 03:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,060
Posted By Dream
Re: is it ok to like being slapped or is that like being wife-bashed?

Like Khaleesi said, it really depends on the context. Its a somewhat common thing to enjoy that type of thing (not common enough to be socially acceptable to most people, but the popularity of Shades...
Forum: Friends and Family January 16th 2014, 03:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 880
Posted By Dream
Re: Friend completely flipped for no good reason and proceeded to block me

Yeah, that definitely wasn't fair of him to block you just because you want a fair price for something you're selling. It basically proves he doesn't value your friendship very much, or at least that...
Forum: Current Events and Debates January 16th 2014, 02:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 701
Posted By Dream
Male Friends

So when I was in high school, I had absolutely no friends. I saw an article recently that talks about the importance of friends and thought it would be good to post, especially since a lot of guys on...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 16th 2014, 02:42 PM
Replies: 3
Triggering: Depressed GF
Views: 498
Posted By Dream
Re: Depressed GF

If you are serious about being with her, you might have to work on being emotionally supportive. She wouldn't be telling you this stuff unless she wanted support. Is there anything that can be done...
Forum: Depression and Suicide January 14th 2014, 03:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 422
Posted By Dream
Re: adviice

Those people are jerks. For regular people, even if they don't like you back, they should at least be flattered that you liked them. And the friends shouldn't even be commenting.

There will be...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 4th 2014, 05:41 AM
Replies: 19
Female Advice Preferred: Bought gf a sex toy, is that ok?
Views: 1,543
Posted By Dream
Re: Bought gf a sex toy, is that ok?

Depends entirely on the girl. Some girls would be up for it, and some would be repulsed by the thought of it.
Forum: Mental Health January 4th 2014, 01:19 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 671
Posted By Dream
Re: Why am I so stupid??

Medical university?

Is it possible that you're just so tired or drained that you just aren't paying attention to what you're doing at home? You might not even realize you're tired.

Aside from...
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