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Search: Posts Made By: Ashen
Forum: Rape and Abuse March 28th 2019, 05:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,811
Posted By Ashen
Re: Leaving an abusive situation

:hug: to you all (note - you'll probably guess if you read this, but typing this after midnight while trying to get over-tired brain to focus on finishing the twenty plus pages of thesis i need to...
Forum: Self Harm March 12th 2019, 01:06 AM
Replies: 18,759
Views: 451,979
Posted By Ashen
Re: Self harm free!

13 months. 15 days.
Forum: Self Harm March 12th 2019, 01:06 AM
Replies: 18,759
Views: 451,979
Posted By Ashen
Re: Self harm free!

Just wanted to say to everyone who's posted here (and those who haven't) - you are amazing and so strong and you're doing great. You can do it!
Forum: Music March 12th 2019, 01:02 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,519
Posted By Ashen
Hobbit - I See Fire

Does anyone know any songs that are similar in style/sound/tone/lyric to 'I See Fire' from The Hobbit - Desolation of Smaug soundtrack (Ed Sheeran)?
Forum: Rape and Abuse March 12th 2019, 01:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,811
Posted By Ashen
Re: Leaving an abusive situation

Thank you all for your replies.
We ended up meeting him in Ohio and getting the stuff he saw fit to give my mom. My mom and I didn't have a way to get back from PA to MI and he was insistent that...
Forum: Rape and Abuse February 24th 2019, 04:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,811
Posted By Ashen
Leaving an abusive situation

So I need some help here.
My mom is moving out here with me (in michigan) and leaving my dad (back in pennsylvania). He's been emotionally abusive for years and has gotten worse since I left for...
Forum: Self Harm February 10th 2019, 01:06 AM
Replies: 18,759
Views: 451,979
Posted By Ashen
Re: Self harm free!

1 year 17 days
Forum: Self Harm September 26th 2018, 03:55 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,975
Posted By Ashen
Re: When someone asks

Thanks for the ideas :)
Sorry, but that's kind of hilarious about the shark story (not your friend's self harm, just that the kid believed her elaborate tale)

I've been clean since january so...
Forum: Self Harm September 26th 2018, 12:55 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,975
Posted By Ashen
When someone asks

Just wondering (and kind of looking for ideas)...
What do you say if/when someone asks where your scars are from or asks what happened? Especially if the person is a child or stranger or family...
Forum: Self Harm April 16th 2018, 09:54 PM
Replies: 247
Views: 10,422
Posted By Ashen
Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2

Reminding myself that I have things to do and I can't spare the energy needed for healing if I self harm :confused2:

and snuggling with my little elf owl and giant owl (stuffed animals)
Forum: Self Harm April 7th 2018, 08:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 870
Posted By Ashen
Re: To my dear fellow self-harmer

Thank you all so much for actually taking the time to read and reply!! :hug: :hug: :hug:

To Svisttt (cause I still haven't figured out how to quote/reply here): awww, thank you :hug: getting there...
Forum: Self Harm April 3rd 2018, 03:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 870
Posted By Ashen
To my dear fellow self-harmer

Dear Fellow Self-Harmer,

This may well be edited or deleted by a moderator, but if possible, I’d like to tell you a story.

So I’ve been self-harming for roughly four years. Mostly I cut my...
Forum: Self Harm February 20th 2018, 04:04 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 636
Posted By Ashen
Scars and job/work

Sorry if this is in the wrong place - wasn't sure if self-harm category or education and career category.

I have a lot of scars on my forearms - the inside of my left arm is almost all scars but...
Forum: General Health January 30th 2018, 03:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 726
Posted By Ashen
Re: Glasses

Thank you for all the replies. One problem is that my eye doctor is back home in Pennsylvania. I'm at college in Michigan. :unsure:
My mom's going to go talk to tomorrow and see if there's a...
Forum: General Health January 29th 2018, 01:43 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 726
Posted By Ashen
Glasses

Hi, so question.
I got new glasses like december 30, 2017. It was supposed to be a new, stronger prescription. But the new ones don't feel any different from the old. Usually it takes a day or two...
Forum: General Health December 16th 2017, 04:00 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 925
Posted By Ashen
Re: Grinding my teeth

I have the same problem. My dentist also suggested getting a night guard.
I found one at target for twenty dollars that was relatively easy to fit myself (not sure what your budget is but that could...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity December 12th 2017, 04:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,262
Posted By Ashen
Grey-romantic?

So I was wondering about something.
I know I'm asexual but I've been thinking about romantic orientation. I'm not really romantic but also not quite aromantic, I think.
I know there are...
Forum: General Health November 29th 2017, 03:57 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 843
Posted By Ashen
Re: Cold sensitivity

Thanks for your reply and suggestions.
I don't really have a doctor to go to. I've thought about emailing the pt people and asking them if they have suggestions but I don't know what exactly to say....
Forum: General Health November 20th 2017, 04:54 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 843
Posted By Ashen
Cold sensitivity

Last December I injured my finger/part of my hand - went to put down the desk part of one of those chairs with the desk attached to one arm and got my hand crushed between the desk and chair. Ended...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity September 23rd 2017, 06:30 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 934
Posted By Ashen
Nevermind

Sorry - nevermind
Forum: Friends and Family May 11th 2017, 01:31 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 710
Posted By Ashen
Re: Calling a 'family member' who's a complete stranger

Thank you for replying. I guess I could try asking him to call or ask for the address.
One of the (many) reasons I don't want to call by myself is I'm fairly sure his uncle doesn't speak english or...
Forum: Friends and Family May 10th 2017, 09:50 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 710
Posted By Ashen
Calling a 'family member' who's a complete stranger

So my dad's family is Chinese and his uncle - who i maybe met once when i was like 5-7, maybe, i can't remember - gave my dad a red envelope with $20 in it for Chinese New Year, 2-3 months ago. My...
Forum: Self Harm May 10th 2017, 07:32 PM
Replies: 1
Triggering: Self harm tool
Views: 878
Posted By Ashen
Self harm tool

Not sure if this is the right place - sorry if it isn't.
So my dad got a splinter and asked me to help cause he couldn't get it out. He was digging for it with tweezers and a nail clipper and...
Forum: Good Days! February 5th 2017, 03:54 AM
Replies: 10,950
Views: 275,328
Posted By Ashen
Re: I'm happy today because...

Brain's actually cooperating with writing at a time other than after 2 in the morning. Yay!! :)
Forum: Education and Careers December 6th 2016, 05:53 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 636
Posted By Ashen
SOS Help please

Okay, so over the summer I worked at a store back home. When I left for college in August, it was said that I'd come go back and work there next summer as well as over breaks when I'm at home. Winter...
Forum: Why Me? October 24th 2016, 05:38 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 237,448
Posted By Ashen
Re: Complaint of the day

Gotta love panic attacks in the middle of class. Fantastic way to start the day.
Forum: Why Me? October 13th 2016, 04:54 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 861
Posted By Ashen
Don't bloody touch me

Sorry, bit of a long nonsensical rant here.
Not sure where to start so I'm just going to start in the middle/end-ish.

So in Chinese every other week we have to do a short skit/presentation with a...
Forum: Self Expression September 25th 2016, 11:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 390
Posted By Ashen
Re: A Good Night to Die

Thank you so much for the replies! :)
I'll try to get to writing the first chapter in between schoolwork - I'll probably post the next part on deviantart. If anyone is curious, you can message me if...
Forum: Self Expression September 25th 2016, 07:50 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 390
Posted By Ashen
Re: A Good Night to Die

[part two of the prologue || okay, it may be a bit dark ??]

It was a good night to kill.
The full moon leered down at him from its lofty throne and he fought the urge to snarl at it. Oblivious...
Forum: Self Expression September 25th 2016, 04:04 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 390
Posted By Ashen
A Good Night to Die

[First part of the prologue to another story I'm thinking of writing || first draft so needs editing/revising || comments/advise/suggestions/thoughts/opinions most welcome || please tell me what you...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity July 31st 2016, 07:33 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 604
Posted By Ashen
confused???

Sorry. It's after 2am so i'm kind of going to be babbling and not making any sense...but this has kind of been bugging me for a while.
I guess first off, i know some people say you shouldn't let...
Forum: Why Me? January 10th 2016, 04:29 AM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 237,448
Posted By Ashen
Re: Complaint of the day

I can't take much more of this
Forum: Why Me? December 16th 2015, 08:29 PM
Replies: 9,137
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 158,161
Posted By Ashen
Re: Screaming thread.

Could i just die already
Forum: Why Me? December 10th 2015, 04:09 AM
Replies: 9,137
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 158,161
Posted By Ashen
Re: Screaming thread.

And yet another GREAT IDEA travel plan. Just bloody fantastic. Thanks a lot. Next winter break just let me stay here and keep several states between us. Who cares about spending christmas together....
Forum: Self Expression December 6th 2015, 09:10 PM
Replies: 3
Triggering: Lost
Views: 468
Posted By Ashen
Lost

Well, this is me kind of messing around in photoshop trying to remember what tools do what and everything.
Pictures: all taken by me
Text: poem written by me ; the text in the background is all...
Forum: Self Expression November 19th 2015, 06:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 337
Posted By Ashen
pictures & quote/poem?

Not sure if this is okay to post here. Sorry if it's not.
I couldn't sleep and couldn't make fog clear enough for schoolwork, so I tried to combine some of the pictures I've taken with quotes from...
Forum: Sports September 24th 2015, 08:10 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,497
Posted By Ashen
Martial Arts

Looking for advice, if that's okay.
I joined a Japanese martial arts club here at college. I've only been to four classes and it's fun but...
But I'm really really really timid and I constantly...
Forum: Why Me? September 13th 2015, 02:09 AM
Replies: 9,137
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 158,161
Posted By Ashen
Re: Screaming thread.

So sorry I don't scream at the top of my lungs when repeating the words like a dutiful like drone. So sorry I'm a quiet person. So sorry I haven't quite figured out how to speak loud enough at a...
Forum: Education and Careers September 2nd 2015, 08:43 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 607
Posted By Ashen
college

I leave for college in 23 hours and I'm freaking out. I'm managing to keep a semi calm face but I'm quietly terrified. If anyone could give some advice on things or suggestions for not losing my mind...
Forum: Depression and Suicide June 14th 2015, 04:23 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 596
Posted By Ashen
Re: guilt bringing me down again

She was considering divorcing him years ago, but he was threatening to take me away from her and she wouldn't let him have full custody so...here we are, still stuck with him. And now he has the...
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