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				February 21st 2010, 10:12 PM
			
			
			
		  
		
	
                
            	
		
		
if his pants are on and so are yours, if he ejaculates (i think that's the right word)? I've heard sperm live for days so could they crawl up there if that area's touching but you both have clothes on...?
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				February 21st 2010, 10:26 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
Really, really unlikely. I'm going to go to with a no on this one.. I wouldn't worry about it.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				February 21st 2010, 10:26 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
I think this will help a lot. Inside a woman they can live a few days, outside the body they can only live a few hours.   http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy/AN00281 
So it is extremely unlikely that you are pregnant. Especially since you had your clothes on. I wouldn’t worry about it if I were you. Just remember, being sexually active, can lead to pregnancy so please use precautions.  
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
				
 
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I read about this somewhere a while ago, and I remember it saying that the chances are extremely unlikely. Lizzie is right, sperm can't last as long outside the body as it can inside the body. Don't worry about it. The chances are very slim to none.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	
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Not likely. I would bet a million dollars you wouldn't get pregnant.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				February 22nd 2010, 02:45 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
Chances are that nothing would happen. It's good to be careful and safe, but most likely there is very little risk to this.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	
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				February 22nd 2010, 03:16 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
I'd have to say no.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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				February 22nd 2010, 04:27 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
id agree on the verdict of no   
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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				February 22nd 2010, 07:25 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
If your not sure what the word ejaculate means then maybe you shouldnt be having sex yet? 
  
Im sure you will be absolutely fine, but try not to be careless and take precautions and be responsible.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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				February 22nd 2010, 08:10 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
I'd assume no. It's highly unlikely. 
It's just the idea that you can get pregnant if sperm gets near your vaginal area in some way. If it's on his clothes or anything, then probably not.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				February 23rd 2010, 01:05 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
its is close to impossible but it is always possible for u to get pregnant like this. I personally wouldnt worry about it. Sperm live for days in a women but a couple hours outside the human body so unless the sperm seeps through his underwear pants then ur pants then underwear no you wont get pregnant.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				February 24th 2010, 03:50 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
Chances are slim to none.  I know they can be sneaky, but I'm not sure that they are willing to put that much effort into getting you pregnant.  Also, they can live for days INSIDE THE BODY, but outside you are looking at maybe a couple of hours.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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				March 1st 2010, 09:56 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
yea im thinking no. theyd have to be very determined little buggers   
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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Your clothing is thick and absorbs it, yes. But sperm doesn't live for days, I've heard it can only thrive on surfaces for a matter of hours, and hot water can kill it so if you take off your clothes and wash it then it's gone. Highly unlikely you will get pregnant that way.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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				If your not sure what the word ejaculate means then maybe you shouldnt be having sex yet? 
  
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 It doesn't sound like they were having sex to me.. unless there's some crazy way to have sex with both of you wearing clothes.
  
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
		
	
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				March 2nd 2010, 01:29 AM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
Nope.... at least not unless your the unluckyest person in the world and your clothes are like suger paper!
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
				  
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