Hi and welcome to
TH!

I like the name Elissa a lot. The way it's pronounced seems awesome to me! My name is Dez. I see that you are one of the newest members to this lovely site here. -Ding ding ding!- So, you have stumbled upon a site for teens (but anyone can join, really) to give support and advice as well as make friends! There's a lot to do here, but don't get nervous! Over time you'll find your way around this site like a pro!

And here are some links to get you started!
How to Use the Forums
Obtaining Advice or Support
See, you can even meet some awesome friends by heading to the Chat Room or PMing or VMing someone (I believe those are explained in the How To Use the Forums link).
I think that you'll fit in well here, Elissa.
-Dez