Hi there Bethanney, my name is Kayla, I am a
Buddy here on the site, so

This site is full of awesome people, and one day you will call this place your family, away from a family

I know I do.
I think you should start by reading
THIS and
THIS, it will get you started with learning the forums and how to get advice on the site, also
HERE will get you started at posting, it will let other members know you are new to this site.
I hope you like it here, I know all of us love it after we got use to it, if you have any questions please feel free to message me anytime <3