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Unhappy I cant do it - July 19th 2012, 05:52 AM

I cant do it. I've been this way for six years now. I've had many people try to help me and also tried the butterfly project. All that's changed is that I've gotten angry. Angry at the world and at myself for being so worthless and stupid. I dont know what else to say so I'll just reveal my life.
People tend to complain around me and its hard not to hear. They say "I hate my parents! they grounded me!" or something to the lines of that. They're lucky. I wish I get grounded and not the punishments I get. Sometimes, it gets so bad that it hurts when I sit down.
Falling in love at a young age is hard. Especially when its with the same gender as you. I didnt care. I was happy for once. But the thing is, my parents dont like it when I get too close with a friend. Already they hate her without even knowing how much she means to me.
   
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Re: I cant do it - July 19th 2012, 03:52 PM

Oh Kat! Btw, welcome to teenhelp I hope this site helps you, we have lots of willing users ready to help & offer you their best advice. And I'm sorry, anger is the worst feeling in the world! Same with being accepted especially if you're different from others but you can get through this. 2 Years ago i was at the same spot you were, just angry at everything! & What i've learned is that it helps to talk, talk a lot is my advice. Write out your feelings, i mean everyday is a struggle but it seems to like to hit us hard at a young age where we think it's impossible to get past. But we can, i can , & i did. You can too.


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Re: I cant do it - July 19th 2012, 05:25 PM

first of all you are not worthless you do have worth try writing out your thoughts and feelings.


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Re: I cant do it - July 20th 2012, 12:03 AM

Hey there,

I am really sorry to hear that you're struggling and I really hope that I can help.

First, like Kelly suggested, try writing a journal of your feelings when you get angry, and talking about it really does help. When you start to get angry, just walk out of the room, maybe say "I need a breather" And leave the room until you get calm. If you're in a situation, such as school, either ask to go to the bathroom, or count to 10 and then count backwards from 10, and do that until you're calm.

Now, you shouldn't be angry at yourself. You're not worthless or stupid. You're struggling, it happens to EVERYONE, and I'm not just saying that. You're on a site where most of us, are struggling with something, and everyone in the entire world has struggled at one point. You are not alone. You will get through this.

I see that the butterfly project didn't work for you, It's an alternative, and not all of them work for everyone. Truthfully, it doesn't work for me either! Maybe you should try some other alternatives. Here's a really long list of some you can try: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f12-s...ves-self-harm/ Don't get discouraged if some of them don't work though, just keep trying to find one that does!

I don't know how old you are, but if your parents won't accept you for you, don't tell them you like same gender. That is completely your decision to tell them or not. Wait until you're old enough to move out on your own and make a life for yourself, with someone you love. If your parents don't like your friend, try to have them get to know her a little better. Invite her over and show them you two are responsible friends.

I hope this helped a bit, if you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to message me! Good luck and take care.


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Re: I cant do it - July 25th 2012, 12:31 AM

Suicide is not the answer for anything... it does get better... u just need to relax for a minute so take a deep breath and maybe talk to a counselor or a close friend just remember it gets bttr, ur not alone, and suicide is never the answer
   
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