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no point - August 14th 2012, 02:37 PM

whats the point of me living anymore my sister died she was what kept me going. i dont want to live anymore without her. its too hard.


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Re: no point - August 14th 2012, 03:49 PM

Chantelle,

This didn't happen long ago and yes, you will always miss your sister and be sad about what has happened, but in time, you'll learn ways to cope with what has happened and these feelings will begin to get easier for you. Its going to take time though and you need to think a bit more positive. You have to be the change you want to see in the world. You saying you can't isn't going to help anything and I know it's hard to be positive and change your thought process but only you can do it. No one else can do it for you.

Your sister wasn't your life. Yes, she meant a lot to you and I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now, but you can still have a life with out her. Like I said, at first its going to be hard but in time the feelings will slowly begin to become easier and you'll learn ways to cope. This isn't the end for you. You have so much to live for and you can go so far.

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Re: no point - August 14th 2012, 03:54 PM

i know i can but i think i cant chelsey helped me so much i was just starting to feel better and then this happens


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Re: no point - August 15th 2012, 12:20 AM

hi,
i know it must be hard to loose someone you love, but if you think about it would your sister really want you to do that. She would of wanted you to move on and be happy and for you to remember her when she was happy. there are always people to help you get through this.
It is going to help your family they r grieving over your sister and they really dont need you committing suicide
   
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Re: no point - August 20th 2012, 04:18 AM

i just can't do it anymore


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Re: no point - August 20th 2012, 04:11 PM

Chantelle, you create your own happiness. You enter recovery. You can stop yourself from hurting yourself. You can be the change you want to see. But only YOU can do all this things. Nothing is in control of you, not the emotions or the thoughts, YOU are in control of them and its time you took that control. Start using the advice people are giving you and put into action because we can give you as much advice as we can, day in and day out, but if you only listen and don't act, then you won't ever get anywhere and it's down to you to make that change.

Remember, we're here to help and support you but we as a website, can only do so much. You need to have support around you in 'real life' and you need to work hard and help yourself more.

I know this is hard for you and I get that but this has been going on for too long. Its now time for you to put a stop to it all, choose happiness and to start moving on with your life. And honestly, you are worth it.

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Re: no point - August 20th 2012, 08:24 PM

Chantelle, I really understand what you are going through. For me though, it was my mom. She was the one who kept me going. Then she passed away unexpectedly.

I still have days where I don't see it ever getting better and I just want it to end, but it does, slowly, get better.

You need to live to carry on her memory. To remember all the good times you had. She would not want you feeling the way you are, and she would most definitely NOT want you to kill yourself because of her.

It took a lot for me to type the above, because I still really don't believe it at times.

But there are people here for you and im sure you have people there for you at home as well.

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