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Ready to die. - September 19th 2012, 01:25 PM

Yeah so I have pretty much given up I cant take this anymore, I just want to kill myself. No one cares about me, no one will listen to me without judging me. I am just so done. The flashbacks about abuse never go away I am constantly thinking about it and the fact the my grandfathers birthday was yesterday and he recently died. Its just to much to deal with and I just cant do it anymore


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Re: Ready to die. - September 19th 2012, 02:46 PM

Im sorry you are going through so much. Though it may seem overwhelming right now hopefully things will get better soon don't give up! feel free to PM me if u want






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Re: Ready to die. - September 19th 2012, 03:46 PM

Hey I know how it feels when everything is crashing down around you. I cant say I've been in your exact sitiuation. But I've been in a similar one. Everything just seems to be going against you right now. But it will get better. Dont give up. Hold on to hope. Im here if you want to talk.

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Re: Ready to die. - September 19th 2012, 04:27 PM

Hi there :-)

You can take more. Yes, its going to be a fight. You're feeling a lot of pain and hurt and getting through each day is absolutely exhausting and a lot of the time it's hard to find something to live for, but if you want happiness and a good future, choose it. Tell yourself you can take this. That you are stronger than what you are going through (because you are!) and that you can have happiness. Anything that is easy isn't worth having. Sometimes we have to feel the pain and take it all on to get something what's worth having. And beating this pain, is going to be worth the happiness you can have at the end.

People do care about you. I for one, care. If I didn't, I wouldn't be spending my time on here writing to you. And you have had two other people respond to you which makes at least three people who care. I am also pretty confident in saying that your family care about you too. Has someone judged you before or is this just what you feel will happen? I want you to know that I, that we here at Teenhelp, won't judge you at all. We're not here to judge the people we see and the problems they are facing. We're here to help people and to support them with what they are going through. You're safe here.

Flashbacks are very hard to deal with and I can relate to that. I'm sorry that you've been abused. Can I ask whether this is something that is still going on for you? I think it might be a good idea for you to post in the Rape and Abuse forum. What do you think?

I'm also sorry about your grandfather. Again, I know losing someone can be really hard. Try to remember all the good and positive things about his life and all the good times you all had together with him.

You can do this and if you want to talk to us about how you feel, the thoughts you are having or what you have or are going through, know that you are more than welcome. We'll listen and try our best to help. But for now, keep on fighting and don't be alone. Your future can be bright.

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Re: Ready to die. - September 20th 2012, 03:27 AM

You have so much life to live! I know it's hard to live with past demons, and to live with a death of a loved one makes it feel unbearable, but keep in mind that just because it's been a hard journey so far it isn't going to be okay soon you can get help for what you have gone through, to help you forget those dreadful emotional or even physical scars.

We all want to see you pull through and make it to the end, so that you can see the light (wow, it sounds like I'm talking about dying, no, metaphorical tunnel that everyone must travel through and then when we emerge in the light we find ourselves, find our lives and pick up the pieces with help and support from friends).

You can make it, and you WILL make it.

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