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Unhappy Depressed and Confused...need to make decisions... - October 22nd 2012, 09:18 AM

I'm in a situation where I dearly miss my home country; Germany, but i'm in a position where I don't know whether or not I should go back...so here's the deal basically I moved last year October back to California after having been back in Germany for 2 1/2 years,and now I'm done with highschool and have started College as well as to that I also got a job working for Staples making above average money, I also got a car loan and I'm paying it off month to month. My mom has said on occasion that she was more than willing to help out with the car even said she would just use it from then on... I feel depressed everytime I think about going back and the whole idea of me missing the atmosphere there and how it's just not the same here... The classes i'm taking are all online so I would be able to do them overseas I just have the problem of whether or not to go... could someone help me? I just feel everyday more and more depressed and sometimes I don't even know whether or not to even try anymore, I know I shouldn't think this way, but I just don't know... my name is Nick by the way so feel free to call me by that anytime. My last choice after talking to mom and others about that was to find something online and I ran into this I don't know if this is the right spot for this sort of issue, but I figured the only similarity to my problem would be depression.
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Re: Depressed and Confused...need to make decisions... - October 22nd 2012, 05:36 PM

Hey Nick, welcome to TH

I'm sorry that you're feeling so bad right now. It's perfectly understandable that you would miss your family. If you can still do all your school online, but you aren't sure whether you want to go home permanently, maybe schedule a visit and then decide? If you did decide to move back, could you still continue the rest of your degree?

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