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Help - November 19th 2012, 09:45 AM

So I'm crying as I write this. I just really want someone to help me! The thoughts are always there and won't go away. It's not going to be long until another plan forms. I just know it!


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Re: Help - November 19th 2012, 09:49 AM

Hello there, Saria,

Firstly, I will first say that suicide is never the solution. As much as your brain twists the thought over and over do something else to take it off your mind. Granted, it is hard and takes a lot of effort, but once you beat the urges, and keep them at bay, they'll become a lot easier to defend yourself from as you get older
Alternatives to going through with it are: Reading a book, singing to music which describes exactly how you feel, writing down how you feel and then tear it up or find a way to help yourself stop feeling this way, and there are sooo many more!

Stay strong, and PM/VM me if you'd ever like to talk to somebody whom knows what you are going through

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Re: Help - November 19th 2012, 12:53 PM

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It sounds like you are having a hard time. Please stay strong I know you can do this. If you need to talk I am here for you. Just send me a PM or come on the chat.

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Re: Help - November 19th 2012, 03:28 PM

Hi there :-)

Firstly, well done for coming to us here at Teenhelp. I know that reaching out to people can be very hard and I think you have done really well in doing so. I hope you can see how well you have done

It sounds as though things are really hard for you right now. Do you know what is making you so upset right now. If you do know what's making you feel this way, I want you to know that we're all always here for you. I know what you're going through is hard and you don't have to be alone in this, okay? If you don't know what's causing you to feel this way, maybe it'd be a good idea to have a really good think to see if you can recognise any triggers.

Those thoughts, I know they are hard to cope with but remember, they are not in control of you. YOU are in control of them. Yes, they are unpleasent and of course they're hard to have to deal with but they are not going to hurt you, ok? Don't allow them to take over. You have the strength.

Saying "It's not going to be long until another plan forms", really isn't going to help. To me, that's you basically setting yourself up for failure and that's going to get you no where. You have to change your thought pattern. Instead of saying that say actually, I am strong enough and I am in control and I can beat this. You know? That's going to take you a lot further in the road of recovery.

I hope this helps a little, hang in there, you can do this.


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