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ending it - January 25th 2013, 06:49 PM

I want to end my life I really do . but what if I do ? then I will hurt all the people around me so it seems . but my question is why do I hate my life so much? why am I so alone? I need help


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Re: ending it - January 25th 2013, 07:05 PM

Hey Jen!

I want you to know that I'm really proud of you for posting this. Admitting that you need help with something like this is scary, and takes a lot of courage. It's great that you're reaching out.

As you probably know, I'm the first to admit that I'm not a know-it-all, here...I don't know the answer to everything, and I haven't experienced everything that you have.

But I do know that life is hard for everyone. For some people, it's only hard a bit of the time. For others, it's hard a LOT. But we all have challenges, we all have things that scare us, things that we have to overcome.

And life is beautiful when you overcome the challenges it gives you. There is nothing more satisfying than overcoming something that's difficult (except perhaps helping someone else to do the same).

I really encourage you to not give up. As I've been telling you lately, it will very likely be helpful to you if you think positively rather than negatively. Don't think about being an awful person, or about being worthless, or about not being able to do anything, etc. Tell yourself just the opposite - that you're worth more than money can buy, that you can get through this, that there's hope. It might seem like you're bragging to yourself...and in a way, you sort of will be. But it's that overwhelming positivity that lets us do the things we want and need to do. Even if it is bragging a bit, even if it feels untrue, what you're saying will be so much more constructive than taking the opposite approach.

The courage that you used to reach out today - use that same courage to keep going through the storm, and not give up. Use that same courage to try to get professional help. Believe in yourself, keep your head up, and never give up!


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Re: ending it - January 25th 2013, 07:08 PM

thanks for saying you are proud of me I am really trying hard not to give up I really am


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Re: ending it - January 25th 2013, 07:55 PM

Life has a tendency to put a brick wall in our way, which halts our progress and blocks our view of what lays beyond. But that wall, no matter how formidable, is not permanent. All it takes is a sledge hammer, or in other words, your will, to smash it down. It might seem impossible, it really doesn't take much. No wall that life puts in your way can stand the strength of your will. And once you've broken through that barrier, you'll see that what lays on the other side was well worth the effort.

Hang in there.


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Re: ending it - January 25th 2013, 07:57 PM

thanks and pm me I need to ask you something . and I really mean it thanks so much


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im feeling the exact same way! exept i know exactly why i dont want to live anymore, i know its hard! stay strong <3x
   
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Re: ending it - January 26th 2013, 09:16 PM

thanks I am trying to stay strong


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Re: ending it - January 26th 2013, 11:05 PM

I agree with the posters above. Focus on the positive, not the negative. Giving up is a lot worse. It brings so much pain to everyone around you. Everyday, wake up and remind yourself that you are special, you are worth it, and that you can do this. I'm here if you need me.

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Re: ending it - January 27th 2013, 12:32 AM

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Re: ending it - January 27th 2013, 11:53 AM

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Re: ending it - January 27th 2013, 02:30 PM

I am ending it tonight


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Re: ending it - January 28th 2013, 10:21 AM

Jen, suicide is not the way to go. Please remember that people care about you, it's not worth it. I think later in life you'll appreciate living. Embrace life, don't find ways to end it.

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Re: ending it - January 28th 2013, 12:03 PM

I try not to find ways to endit . I really do but it always comes crawling back


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Re: ending it - January 28th 2013, 12:12 PM

I know it's hard, but the fact you do try shows you're strong enough to beat this.

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Re: ending it - January 28th 2013, 01:24 PM

thanks i guess


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Re: ending it - January 28th 2013, 01:28 PM

Hey Jen,
I know I've been talking to you through VMs, but I just wanna say that you're very strong and we're all proud of you. Stay strong <3
   
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thanks that means a lot


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