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Help me please - February 8th 2013, 02:14 PM

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I'm just so done, everyone hates me, calls me names, my grades are so bad. I wanted to spend a year in england, but it probably won't work because of my stupid grades.
I'm cutting and I just can't do it anymore.
My best friend is being mean, even though she knows all of that stuff.
I have nobody to talk to, I just can't do it anymore!
I'm so depressed.

Please, please help me
   
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Re: Help me please - February 8th 2013, 03:21 PM

Why is it you feel you have no one to talk to? Have you already tried talking to you school counselor and your parents? If not, I think maybe you should. It can be hard, but when I was in your position I wrote my mother a letter--easier than starting the conversation out loud, but still a huge step in the right direction.

When you say you want to spend a year in England, do you mean as a transfer student or something else? If so, and your age (15) is correct, why not wait until university and study abroad for a year (or even for your entire degree)? This will give you the time you need to bring your grades up, as well as to begin feeling stable enough to fend for yourself in a new country. You can talk to a counselor in your school about what it would take to do this, and they can help you. They could also connect you to resources that will help you improve your grades. Alternatively, your local library or a nearby college might offer tutoring.

About your friend--have you talked to her about how she is treating you? Does she know her behavior is hurting you?



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