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Unhappy Fallin - March 17th 2013, 12:30 AM

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Im falling w/ my Fiance & His Mother & their stuff that im currently in the Middle of.

I dont show it all the time but when i get to much of it, I seem to take it out on him or whoever is around.
Im starting to get those Thoughts Of "SUICIDE" again or wanting to Cut up my Arm...
Im trying so HARD but its overwheming my Mind.

It will be 1Year we've been 2gether & Its getting worse...
I just dont Kno wat to do....

HELP ME!!!


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Re: Fallin - March 17th 2013, 03:34 PM

Hey. I'm sorry about that. Have you considered mediation between you and your fiancé and his mother? I'm not sure how that works, but it's a thought. And maybe if nothing works out, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
It's better now than in five years, when you could possibly be stuck as a single mother and a victim of divorce.
I hope it all works out. And if it's causing you to think of suicide, maybe it really isn't meant to be. Talk to him.
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Re: Fallin - March 19th 2013, 03:30 AM

Hi, Leslie.

I'm so sorry about what's going on, but if this is making you feel suicidal, then it's time to take control and let your fiance know. He needs to know so he can try and help you. Because everyone has their problems in relationships, such as him and his mother. But that shouldn't have to effect you as much as it is, so how about removing yourself from an argument sometimes to calm down? While you try to help him, make sure you take care of yourself.

Can you firmly let him know that talking it out with his mother is the only way to get past this?

Please Stay Strong <3
Suicide definitely isn't the answer, things do get better. I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
   
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Re: Fallin - March 19th 2013, 01:04 PM

Well Its hard when Im in between him & what he's going through & my parents and their arguments....Ive moved out but trying to make my head less stressed its just complicated. My fiance has some problems but wat seems to irritate me & which i know he cant help it is his memory thing....i have to keep him understanding why i act the way i do...i have my problems but w/ also dealing w/ his its killing me. ive tried to not think bout suicide ever again if ive met the right person. Its going on a Year in August & Its getting tougher to handle. He works @ 2 jobs & im trying to get myself back to school & seeing bout going thro Treatment for my HEP C that I was Dignoised w/ @ age 12 from my birth mother....Im adopted which makes things worse bc i dont know when things will happen in my life & Its just knocks me down. I love him so much but its like im going to have to keep my EAR BUDS in to Ignore him when im Irritated. Im trying the best as i can but Its like im losing a String a Day....

Its hard 2 explain when its a ton of things to understand & you cant just express yourself for any reason w/o people looking @ u weird....


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