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I hate myself. - April 4th 2013, 11:07 PM

Im such a bitch to my siblings. I cant stop myself. I think i got this amazing quality from my mom, she is such a bully to us. One might say she is a narcissus. BUT anyways, it seems like we are all pretty shitty to one another. its like i cant even be in the same room with them. they purposely try to piss me off and not listen and then i say such mean things to them. like my little brother will just ask for an applesauce and i will just fucking explode. im always so freaking mad ALL the time, or im just plain shitty and rude. i hate my mother with a passion. she is over fucking controlling, always yells if we dont ask how high when she say jump, i never have any alone time or privacy, she puts me down, wont leave alone always asking what im doing what im thinking. i just want to die. wtf. im starting to be just like her: an emotional abuser.
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Re: I hate myself. - April 4th 2013, 11:18 PM

got same problem here, we wanna be different and break the cycle. i've been somewhat improving but still slip up. we jst gotta keep trying to be better. patience is ALWAYS needed...feel free to pm me if ud like. wish you well
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Re: I hate myself. - April 4th 2013, 11:40 PM

Hi, Serenity!

I'm so sorry about this. I can relate completely. My mom is the same way and I've got anger problems from it. But listen, darling, you don't have to become your mom. You can show her that it's better to be nice instead of abusive. Something that may help you, is to get relaxed, have a cup of tea and just generally try to get into a nice mood. Then do something nice for your younger brother, like bring him a snack or something to drink and while he's young, teach him to be kind. He may develop the same traits as your mother as he's growing up so he needs to learn to be nicer and generous. You'll become more relaxed and feel better being able to be nice as well. Whenever I'm about to react in sadness or anger, I stop to think about my actions so I can go about them better. Maybe you could try that?

Remember you don't have to be your mom. I'm here if you need me!

Stay Strong <3
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