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i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 08:17 PM

I try all the time and i feel like i just bring everyone down ... even my boyfriend ... to be honest i don't belong on this earth anymore and everyone thinks i do ... i am a fail i hurt people and no one sees i am in pain..... if anyone can give me suggestions on what to do i'd like to know thank you


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 09:27 PM

How are you in pain, DO YOU feel Remorse and shame for hurting others? If so, you are not a horrible person, and are forgiven
   
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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 09:45 PM

i feel like junk andi feel stupid


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 09:48 PM

first of all you do deserve to be alive, just being alive is prove of that. you arnt a bad prison, there is no such thing. you just have a illness that you need help for and teretment. so you can learn how to not hert the people arowd you. my advice is to go for tharipey or if you are in tharipey ask if there is a group that works on inter prsonal reasonships like DBT.
   
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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 09:51 PM

whats DBT?


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 10:01 PM

sorry that i can't remaber what it stands for but it is a group tharipy. it works on coping skills and communication skills as well as lots of others. i go to it and it has helped me so much.
   
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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 19th 2013, 10:08 PM

ok i will ask about it


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 20th 2013, 01:18 PM

You are fine, Jen, trust me <3
   
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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 20th 2013, 04:26 PM

thanks <3so much


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 20th 2013, 04:48 PM

Oh, sweetie, don't beat yourself up. The people whom you are bringing down are probably just scared for your safety. So many people on this earth love you and need you to make their lives beautiful. There are so many people who care and want you around, who want to help you. Don't be so hard on yourself - you are beautiful and very strong to come to us for help.

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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 20th 2013, 05:19 PM

Exactly, just listen to what people have got to say about you, jen.

Its all good stuff. Everyone has done something wrong in our lives, but its how you take it.

And Keep Moving Forward. <3 <3
   
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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 20th 2013, 10:33 PM

thanks everyone for caring


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Re: i feel so dumb...... - April 24th 2013, 02:43 AM

Aww hun, we all hurt people in our life sometimes. Sometimes it's intentional, sometimes it's by accident. But you feel bad for hurting others, that shows how caring you are. You wouldn't be here today if you didn't belong here, hunny. You can do this, don't give up. Suicide is never the answer because it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. And this will hurt the people who love you more than words ever could. They would be devastated to never see you again. Imagine that.

You can do this. You've been through a lot, you're getting stronger each time you make it through all these hard times in life.
Stay Strong <3
   
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