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Unhappy someone help. - April 21st 2013, 02:23 AM

I want to commit suicice. What will happen to me? My frind told me if I do they`ll call an ambulance. Where will the ambulance take me? I`m scared of my parents. Or the sorry people who call themselves my parents. Will the hospital let them see me? I need help.
   
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Re: someone help. - April 21st 2013, 02:30 AM

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Suicide is a very serious matter!

If you succeed in suicide, and depending on your religion, you will go wherever your beliefs are. But you will for sure leave the Earth and lose everything you made on here like relationships and memories.

Depending on what time the ambulance gets to you, you may already be dead and they can't do much about it and just take you to a funeral home. But if there's a possibility you can be saved, you will most likely go to the hospital and may even have to spend some time on the mental health floor.

Please realize that thee are your parents your talking about. You're a growing teen- things will be rough. But these are just the things that shape our lives and who we are.
   
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Re: someone help. - April 21st 2013, 02:40 AM

i know how hard it is to feel so bad and how scary it is to want to take your own life. if your friend call the ambilce they will take you to the hospital they have a unit for this kind of stuff. i have been there once the staff are reply nice. i don't know if they will let your parents see you, it depends on so much. don't try to kill your self you are so special <3
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Re: someone help. - April 21st 2013, 03:03 AM

Hello Chloe,

Suicide is very serious, and I'm so proud of you for coming to us for help.

Please don't attempt suicide. If you were to survive, you would have to deal with the guilt for the rest of your life. You don't want that, do you. Perhaps you should call an ambulance for yourself, get yourself to a hospital and get the help you need.

You do not deserve to be suffering like this. Nobody deserves the pain that you must be feeling. Please, get help. You'd be surprised how strong you become when you make it through this difficult challenge. And you CAN make it through. Just believe in yourself, and get the help that you need.

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Re: someone help. - April 24th 2013, 05:45 AM

Hi, Chloe.

You have a really lovely name, beautiful. And I'm so sorry you feel this bad to think of suicide. Suicide is really serious and it's not worth it. You have your whole life ahead of you and I'm sure that you have people in your life that love you so much more than you can imagine. This would devastate them and send them into a life of grief. I realize things must be hard but you can get through this. Just do things that make you happy, find healthy coping mechanisms. Think of happy memories.

If you attempt suicide, they'll send you to the mental health floor in the hospital. You can also call 911 if you're about to attempt suicide, maybe they can help you and prevent it. I'm not sure if your parents will be able to see you. I think different hospitals have different rules and visiting hours. Although I'm sure underneath everything, your parents love you.

Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to. I can listen.

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Re: someone help. - April 24th 2013, 03:18 PM

Hi Chloe.

I'm sorry you are feeling this way right now, it sounds like things are real tough for you but I'm glad that you have come to us here at Teenhelp for some support to help you through it. You don't deserve to be alone in this.

From the questions you are asking us it sounds like you are wanting to maybe attempt to kill yourself but for it not to be successful which makes me think that you want to attempt as a way to cry for help because you're feeling so low right now, that you're so desperate, you just want someone to see that you are hurting and that you want them to help you in some way. So inanserr to your questions, yes, if you were to try to kill yourself and someone found you, they may call an ambulance to take you to hospital or take you to hospital themselves. The hospital wouldn't let family and friends not to see you. Or not in the ER/A&E anyway. If you were admitted onto a ward in the hospital, there would be visiting times.

However, attempting suicide is physically painful. I've overdosed several times and it's very, very painful and they've been very traumatic experiences to go through. It hurts to think about them all so if all of this is a cry for help then my advice to you is to go to someone that you trust, and be honest with them. Tell them how you feel and what's going on for you right now. What the thoughts you are having are. Be honest and ask them to help you. Okay?

Suicide is never the way out. Life is so beautiful and you deserve so much more than death, you deserve better. You can get through this - I know it's really hard for you right now but it doesn't mean that it's never going to get better. Things get better but you need to get some support and and you need to give it time, okay?

You can do this so keep fighting,
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Re: someone help. - April 24th 2013, 08:52 PM

Hi Chloe

My friend was in a similar predicament as you are now. She called 9-1-1 and was taken to the hospital in the back of an ambulance. She was then put on a suicide watch, as well as isolation for her self-harm.

Yes, I believe they'd probably bring an ambulance to transport you to the hospital. If you are under the age of eighteen, your parents will be notified. It's the law. Remember that everyone just wants to help you and them knowing that you're suicidal isn't a bad thing.

Thanks for reaching out to us!


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