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can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 02:53 AM

im such a fail..... im so done


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 03:17 AM

Here's a tip: When you post a thread you might need to add more details so we have the ability to help you more. [EDIT]


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 04:59 AM

What's wrong hun?


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 10:51 AM

Hey, Jen.
What's wrong? It's so not worth giving up, over anything.
   
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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 11:11 AM

Jen,

I don't really know how to help because you haven't put a lot of detail into your thread. I did, however, want to tell you that you're definitely not a fail. Whatever it is that has happened, if it could have gone better, it still could always have gone worse. You can pick things up and make this better for yourself still, so don't give up hope.

If you want any more help, please don't hesitate to add a bit of information here. I'd love to help you out, but without knowing what I'm helping out with, it's very difficult to do that. Just don't give up, alright?

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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 12:04 PM

talk to someone it will help
   
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Re: can anyone help me? - April 27th 2013, 01:34 PM

Jen,

I just wanted to let you know something. You, are a great person. You are a daughter, a sister, a cousin, a niece, a granddaughter, a friend, and a TeenHelp poster. You, as an individual mean a lot to numerous people.

No one wants you to give up, because everyone, and I mean everyone you knew would mourn your loss. And as someone who has lost someone to suicide before, there is no "moving on" because you never forget what happened. Because someone I knew felt so bad and I didn't know about it. So please, don't give up.

What would, perhaps, a little cousin or sibling do without you? Could you imagine them saying, "Oh, yeah. Jen was my cousin. She committed suicide when I was little though."

You have so many things, and people to get to know in life. There are so many things to see and achieve. It isn't your time to die. Along the way, you'll touch people's hearts and people will touch your heart.

Live, one day, or hour, or minute at a time, Jen. You can do this.


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:10 PM

i feel like such a fail cause i cant do anything rgiht


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:12 PM

Yes, you can. You're not giving yourself credit. Like, here's something you did right: You reached out to us.


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:14 PM

i mean like in school i am failing 3 out of 5 o my subjects .... i keep loosing friends ..... i ust wish i had friends in my school and i had good grades


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:20 PM

If these people were your true friends, they'd stick by you no matter what. Everyone kind of goes their separate ways at this age. Do they know what's going on with you? If not, maybe you could consider telling them.

As far as the classes go, don't be afraid to ask for help. This is something I regret not doing. Go in for lunch, or before or after school to get the extra help you need. What classes are they? Maybe I could help you.


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:22 PM

I understand what it is like feeling like you failed at everything. But the upside to that is that as lomg as you are still trying and learning from your mistakes you will gain experience for the future. No one knows how to do everything right grommets start, and you have strength and weaknesses. If you're trying to improve, it is a process and requires you keep going even when you fall flat on your face (metaphorically speaking). Remember that it's okay to ask for help if you need it. It also helps to look at the positive in your life. I know it feels difficult to do that but being thankful for what you do have can give you motivation to keep going. And don't forget you have TH. <3
   
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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:22 PM

they do know what is going on with me i dont know why they just stop taqlking to me . it is science english and social studies that are the subjects i am failing


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:23 PM

thanks susan i try not to forget about TH <3


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:26 PM

sorry for the spelling errors, this mobile device
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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:28 PM

Its ok thank you for your help


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:29 PM

If you ever need help with any assignments, let me know

I think you should get out there! You could join clubs and meet people with the same interests. You could talk to your friends and ask why they're not talking to you. I think you should maybe talk to a trusted teacher or a guidance counselor at school so you have a support system there, too.


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:30 PM

no problem. Also, is there anyone you can speak to about your classes? Do you have tutoring centers or you can speak to the guidance counselor?

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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 02:32 PM

my guidance counsler is so annoying she wont even let me sign up for a tutoring class .. she says i dont need it


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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 03:04 PM

If you want help, you're going to need to write more than just one line answers. You keep coming here for help with really vague things and then when people try to respond all you say is thank you, without really taking advice. And then you're back here again with a similar thread.

Is there anything that you can think of that may have led to your friends being like that? Have you lied to them? Have you said something? Did you do something to upset one of them? Do they know how you feel? For your grades, you don't need a tutoring class to get help, talk to your teachers. No one knows how to help you pull your grades up better than them.



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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 03:09 PM

I could also help with assignments. Also...I'm not sure if we should talk about where we live out loud But it says you live in ny. So are you preparing for the regents exams? If you are I could help with that too.

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Re: can anyone help me? - April 28th 2013, 09:06 PM

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I could also help with assignments. Also...I'm not sure if we should talk about where we live out loud But it says you live in ny. So are you preparing for the regents exams? If you are I could help with that too.

Well try to at least

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yeah i am preparing for my math and science ones math intergrated algebra and science :living eniornment


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