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Help me... - April 23rd 2015, 01:24 PM

I'm not sure, there's a lot I want to say... but I'll try to keep this short...
Okay, when I was 12-ish I lost my mom to cancer. And shortly after that I lost my best friend. I have been depressed ever since. And I can't seem to hold friendships for too long because I'm not really worth it and I'm too emotional...
But last year I met this guy, and we're best friends. I was really happy and he made me feel worth it and he made me feel great. Like a few months ago though... my aunt and her boyfriend moved in with me and my dad. And I got increasingly depressed after that, because something her boyfriend did, and still is doing. And my friend picked up on my depression and he comforted me at first, but now I think he's getting annoyed with me (he says hes not.) Because all I talk about is sad stuff and no matter how hard I try to think and talk positively I just snap back into my depressing thoughts. And I don't know how to get out of it. And what's really bothering me is that he says he still loves me and always will, but I feel like he just says that out of obligation or something... its hard to explain.
And he keeps saying those things... and I keep thinking it's not true and I don't know exactly where I'm going with this... I feel like I'm rambling now...
But basically I'm really confused and I want to get out of this negative mindset. And I have been going to therapy since I was 13 and it hasn't helped. And my friend is getting bored of me or something and I guess I want someone to talk to...? And give me advice... I just need help...
And I reallyyyy want to tell everything but I don't want a really long post.
   
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Re: Help me... - April 23rd 2015, 06:17 PM

Hey there. I'm so sorry you've had to go though this. I just want you to know that you aren't alone. It's a good thing that you are seeking professional treatment. I want to ask have you tried or have you though about taking medication? Sometimes it takes a combination of different treatment options to get the relief we are expecting.

All that aside, I want you to know that I'll always be here if you need someone to lean on. Keep your head up, things will get better. Take care of yourself dear, and remember I'm just a PM/VM away.


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