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I give up - July 21st 2015, 10:16 PM

I don't see a point in trying anymore. I've been neglected, abused, and bullied and I don't want to deal with it anymore. I can't even leave the house without being triggered in some way. Sometimes I'll feel really down and other times I will get quite angry and hateful. I feel like I want to lash out at people. I don't even bother trying to find a job. Doesn't matter how many resumes I send out, I never hear back from them. I have a hard time socializing with people. I can't start or hold a conversation so I end up not saying anything and push them away. I often feel like I'm the problem, that it is all my fault. After being treated so badly my whole life, it's hard to find any decency in anyone. I don't trust anyone now, they are only interested in themselves and will deceive and manipulate you to get what they want. Maybe that's why some people won't talk to me, because they know I don't have anything they want. Once I have something, then they are interested.

I honestly give up. I don't care anymore. Ill just go back to pills and booze till I drop and die. I bet that's what they want anyway or they just don't care.
   
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Re: I give up - July 21st 2015, 10:52 PM

Ryan I'm so sorry you feel this way, but I promise you things will start to look up, you just have hold on tight. People here on TH care about you, and we don't want to see you hurt or upset. I'm so sorry you feel like this is the only option you've got, but I promise you it isn't. Whom ever wants to see you fail, they clearly aren't worth your time, but I promise I want to see you grow and accomplish. Please don't give up on your happiness.


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Re: I give up - July 22nd 2015, 01:24 AM

Never give up my friend. Keep your head up. Everything is worth fighting for. The world is yours.
   
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Re: I give up - July 22nd 2015, 07:03 PM

Life doesnt come easy, but the only thing that holds true for everyone is that if you try and try and try and try, you'll eventually succeed. You have such a bright future, and what i see happening in a few years time is you smiling, you being happy and you socializing with plenty of people and having a good time and really smiling because you're too happy to not smile.

When things get tough, the tough get going. And i know that you're tough and strong... you'll always have us. Never ever stop relying on us too We'll always be around.

You are loved and you deserve so much better than to feel this way. I reassure you that you have talents that other people don't so its time you thought positive and discovered more good things bout yourself. There's PLENTY


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You guys deserve to be happy no matter what.. okay? You people are a bunch of lovelies ... and no matter what, you people deserve to be happy.
   
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Re: I give up - July 22nd 2015, 11:41 PM

You should never feel like giving up!
   
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Re: I give up - July 23rd 2015, 04:25 PM

Being abused and bullied must have been really hard for you and I can't begin to imagine how this must be making you feel. Do you want to talk to us about it? We're here to listen and we'll try to support you through it as much as we can do. We'll support you as best as we can and we won't judge you either. If you don't want to talk to us about it that's okay too. Here is a link where you can talk all about it: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f13-rape-abuse/ and here: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f20-p...sure-bullying/. But remember we're here to listen and to help.

Is there a way you can let out your anger? In a good way and a healthy manner. Things like writing about things, talking to people, writing poems or song lyrics, doing sport, dance, photography etc and then even things like hitting pillows but make sure its safe. I don't want you to end up hurting yourself at all.

This is about doing what you want. I doubt that's what they want but even if is it doesn't matter because this is about you and your needs and wants. You deserve a life and you deserve to give yourself a chance to get better again and to start over. You can get through this and to the other side and have a good life, a life that's worth living and one that you enjoy. It isn't always going to be this way. Things can and will get better and I am not just saying it to make you feel better, I mean it.

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