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I hate everything about me - February 5th 2016, 12:34 AM

I can't be everything they need I'm not the guy who gets the girl at the end I'm not the guy who everyone wants to be I'm not the guy who's popular I'm not the guy who's always smart I'm the guy who girls turn away from and laugh at I'm the guy that everyone makes fun I'm the guy who gets D's and F's and might not graduate school I'm the guy in the back who is too scared to say anything I'm the guy who just wants to be loved and have friends
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Re: I hate everything about me - February 5th 2016, 01:13 AM

Hey there.

I'm going to be 'that old person'. I have a friend who I went to high school with. He was considered 'the freak' and the 'weirdo'. Nobody understood him. He had a lot of artificial friends, because they thought it was cool to be with the weirdo. He was very lonely and depressed. His grades sucked. His GPA was something like 1.85. I remember it was under 2. He never had a steady relationship.

Well. 10 years later. He's moved now. Has found a career he loves. Just moved in with his boyfriend. Has made several friends. And is living a happy life.

Essentially, I'm saying it's okay to not be the popular one in school. Sometimes you don't even have to wait 10 years to find your true friends. You might find them just out of high school.

I had no friends in high school, but made friends outside of high school. I just had a really hard time making friends then. But as soon as I was out, I began making friends very easily. Met my husband right out of school.

So there is hope to be the person you want to be. Not all of it revolves around you right now. It might happen in a few years. If you ever need to talk though, I'm all ears.
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Re: I hate everything about me - February 5th 2016, 10:30 AM

Hello there. I think that when it comes to making friends and having a good time, it's all about relaxing and it's better to be yourself. No point thinking too much about what could go wrong when there's so many things that can go right. I do know how it feels like to have plenty of grievances or insecurities about who you are, but I reassure you that the same holds true for everyone else. If we can see our own strenghts, then our flaws don't matter. Life is about playing to our strengths, and I'm sure that you've plenty of them ... you just don't think you have them , but you do.

The people who ignore you are missing out on your nice personality, and to be frank you deserve better than people who judge you and only accept you for who they want you to be, rather than who you really are. Your true friends lie elsewhere and I'm sure that you'll find them!

You're the guy that everyone would be lucky to have a friend /lover. But I think that right now... you might not think that you're that person. But you are.. you're so understanding, nice and mature . You're going places.

Have some faith in yourself and try talking to more people out there... you'll be surprised by the progress and chances to make friends and mix around . There's plenty of chances as long as you're willing to make the first move.

If you want someone to rant to or just need a friend, remember that I'll always be around too, and I got your back all the way!

It's called a tunnel because there's ALWAYS a light at the end.

rant to me if there's anything!



As usual... pm me if you are ever having a tough day, and I'll respond immediately.

You guys deserve to be happy no matter what.. okay? You people are a bunch of lovelies ... and no matter what, you people deserve to be happy.
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