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I ruined my dads life - July 3rd 2016, 06:33 PM

I spent 500 on minecraft and my dad is outraged, so am I cause I got scammed. Now everyday, my dad is so upset. He wants to beat me so hard but he never got a chance because relatives were here, right now we are short on money and i wasted so much cash. Please help me, i can't see my dad in stress and agony. I want to kill myself now what DO I DO!
   
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Re: I ruined my dads life - July 3rd 2016, 08:01 PM

Own up to your mistake. Get a job mowing the grass or washing windows or anything and earn all the money you wasted back. Scrub floors do whatever you can for relatives or neighbors or friends to earn it back and keep giving it to your dad. That's how you fix it. Not by killing yourself.
   
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Re: I ruined my dads life - July 3rd 2016, 08:20 PM

I'm sorry that this happened. But suicide is never the answer to any problem. I know it might seem like it's the end of the world right now because you made a mistake, and it maybe have been a big one but your life is more than that. I know your dad would be devastated that it had pushed you to think of that. Don't give up, okay?

I do think you need to talk to him about it and talk about ways that you can make it up to him. Since money is tight, it might be a good idea to look into things you can do such as trying not to ask to eat out, trying not to ask for things at the store, helping with chores, mowing the lawn for others. Talk to your dad one on one and apologize and ask what you can do to make it up to him.

You made a mistake, but that doesn't make it the end of the world for you and your dad. If your dad is being abusive though, you need to go to an adult about it. Because nothing justifies abuse. It doesn't matter how badly you messed up. I know I sometimes feel like my dad could deck me too, but it depends on the person and situation so if you think that is a possibility you need to talk to someone.

I hope this helps and I hope things work out for you. I'm here if you need to!


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